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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
At my wits end and I have had enough today already omg I am just over life at the minute keeps throwing curveballs and it has been from the day I was born why can’t things just be NORMAL! I shouldn’t have been born plain and simple
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
what is it for @ArraDreaming
I have a wonderful ex brother in law ... who I dont see cos of family splits etc ... but he is a passionate performer as a Mexican guitarist ... and really good with people ... chaotic as anything ... drove my sister mad ...
It takes all types
Find a way a strengths based approach
Even when my kids were little ... I believed a little mess was good for creativity ... rather than too much structure and order ...
Now the church I go to ... have a messy church activity for young and old .... I have not been, but see it as a great idea for working against rigid thinking ... and developing connection.
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
Started seeing a psych again after a couple of years off it 2nd app meant to be today @Appleblossom
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Funny thing ... not ... is she was the only one who had no physical or mental health problems ... Hmmm ...
Take care @ArraDreaming
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
@ArraDreaming ologist or pdoc?
I have seen a few of them in my time ... never cancelled but not always sure they were worth it ... do have a sense of respect .. or clicking?
I make a bad joke that my family has single handedly supported the industry ... weary sigh ...
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
I went even though I didn’t want to @Appleblossom
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Aaaah ... for me ... the "Not giving a *&*& feeling" often comes and goes like all the other feelings.
Worth a try ... give you some street cred for the romantic getaway ....
@ArraDreaming
Find the place where we dont shoot selves in the foot ...
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Sorry for last post ... just saw your most recent. @ArraDreaming
For me going to psychologists became about my discipline to show up ... as honestly they never gave me any info or strategies ... kinda why I am pretty skeptical about them atm.
But still ... if I hadna gone I would be 6 foot under .... talking of feet ....
Whether its any good ... you often cant tell ... til way later ....
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor
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