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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor16 June 2022, 9:48 pm AEST

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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tymeModerator28 Nov 2022, 9:40 pm AEDT

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Are you okay? @Captain24

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Captain24Senior Contributor28 Nov 2022, 9:45 pm AEDT

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My MH is perfectly fine but I am also going through some stuff as well. I think maybe I took your post the wrong way @tyme

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tymeModerator28 Nov 2022, 9:50 pm AEDT

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Oooo @Captain24 - I'm sorry if I miscommunicated anything @Captain24 .

Please let me clarify if needed.

As long as you are okay. You had be very worried there for a moment.

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Captain24Senior Contributor28 Nov 2022, 9:54 pm AEDT

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My fault @tyme. Im a little over sensitive when it comes to social stuff. When I try and get shot down it sends the social phobia into overdrive. I read your msg as an attack on me. It did rock my stability a little. More than I want to admit.

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tymeModerator28 Nov 2022, 10:04 pm AEDT

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Oooh! I'm so sorry @Captain24 . There was genuinely NO personal attack at all! I'm sorry if it came across that way.

If anything, I think you have done such an incredible job and I really see you working as a peer support worker in the future.

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tymeModerator28 Nov 2022, 10:05 pm AEDT

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But I definitely appreciate you being honest with me too @Captain24 🙂

Once again, I'm really sorry if anything came across as a personal attack or anything. No intention on my part - at all.

I'll be hopping off soon. Have a good evening 🙂 I'll catch up with you later in the week.

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Captain24Senior Contributor28 Nov 2022, 10:06 pm AEDT

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It’s ok @tyme Im just stupid at times. I have to get this social phobia bull sh*t under control first!

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tymeModerator28 Nov 2022, 10:07 pm AEDT

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You know what? @Captain24 . I'm just going to give you a BIG hug 🙂

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Captain24Senior Contributor28 Nov 2022, 10:09 pm AEDT

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Thanks @tyme Heres one for you too 🤗

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Captain24Senior Contributor29 Nov 2022, 5:09 pm AEDT

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So everything I touched today turned to sh*t. What could go wrong did go wrong!
My back pain is out of control. I did the housework including ironing and unpacking the dishwasher. Also I have dinner on.

The mechanic didn’t ring back so I guess there is more wrong with my car than just not starting!

But through it all I took everything in my stride! It didn’t rattle me at all.

Im so proud of myself!!

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