I can’t cope

I’m a bit nervous as I don’t post anymore just respond

But thank you @Bow. I actually got some sleep last night. I really appreciate what you shared.

Hiya @Captain24 just wanted to come check in on ya, see how you've been 💜

Hi @Jynx.

I didn’t think you would.

Im not ok but I can’t say anymore.

Today was a bed day.

How are you?

Hey @Captain24 , I'm just popping in to say I'm reading on. Today sounds hard. But I guess a bed day once in a while is okay. I'm mindful there's a lot happening for you.

I had a grumpy day today. So I needed to come online to get out of my head. Nothing bad. Just something my sister said that really annoyed me. So I'm making space by chilling here a bit.

I'll see you tomorrow I've I don't see you later tonight.

Hope you got your shopping done.

Hey @tyme !!

I think I needed a bed day. My cold isn’t going away I think there is too much stress. I’m hoping tomorrow is better.

I didn’t call anyone today. I just couldn’t face any one else’s dramas.

Sorry your sister did that. I’m glad you are looking after yourself though. I hope you have an empty house? So you have some space from it all.

I did get my shopping done at 7 this morning. There was a few people there doing the same thing. I saw a couple of people from work and they were getting it done so they didn’t have to leave the house again!

What are your plans for tomorrow?

I'm house hunting @Captain24 . It's times like this that I want to move away lol. But when I see the kids, I know they will change my mind.

It's no big deal. It's just sister stuff lol.

Take care. The eldest has just come over to my place.

Is old mate still in your other house? @tyme.

Could you find something close that you would still be able to see the kids all the time but allow you a little space?

Talk after dinner tomorrow night if you don’t come back

I'm sad that's your thought @Captain24 but it's okay. I was away yesterday so maybe you assumed - my brain would have too back in the day.

Bed days are soooo valid hun. Rest is important! What occupied you in your bed day? Mine are usually a mix of streaming comfort shows and snacking, and napping and crying.

I'm alright, had a very churny gut yesterday tho so I had a bed day my own self! Come good now but yeah the brain fog is real 😅

You made your feelings pretty clear in the post last week @Jynx. I didn’t think you would come back.

I just slept. I don’t have a tv in my room and don’t eat in bed as it’s too hard with the two dogs on the bed that have to have what I’m having.

Sorry you didn’t feel well yesterday.

@Captain24 well... I think we may be not on the same wavelength then because I don't recall expressing anything that would indicate that I don't want to talk to you anymore. Maybe it's worth re-reading? Or you can tell me what it is you believe I expressed and I can help you connect the dots to my actual meaning. I don't think I expressed a lotta feelings, what I did was express a boundary. I do so with all my relationships regardless of their context. I don't really bother with expressing boundaries to people I don't respect so... think of that what you will 😉

Besides, the team is always gonna be here for you, myself included. You're part of the forums fam too, and whether that lil voice lets you believe me or not, we'll always do our best to support and connect with you whenever you need. It's why we're here 💜

Anyway, that kind of bed day is legit still valid hun - your body probably needed the rest!

How are the doggos now? Been getting up in your bizz?

Thanks hun 😊