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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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tymeModerator

Re: I can’t cope

In the light of data, we get many more people getting upset because they don't get tagged than people who do get tagged. If you have particular concerns about certain people regularly tagging you, it may be good to be open an honest about it to them. We can support you if you wanted to flick us a draft post to them (only if you wanted to).

Instead of looking at the whole list, can you just pick 1 or two things. It's okay to pivot. Set new goals now and just focus on achieving those @Captain24 ?

I can be your buddy for the next hour and I can check in regularly.

What's top priority to do now?

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

It’s ok. I don’t want to upset anyone @tyme. I don’t like too and anyway it’s probably just me. I’m not worth the worry.

I think a good place to start would be finishing the ironing. So I can say something is finished.

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tymeModerator

Re: I can’t cope

Go for it @Captain24 .

Let me know how you go.

Message me once you have completed even the first one.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

My ironing is all done @tyme.

Now to pack it all away.

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JynxModerator

Re: I can’t cope

Hiya @Captain24 !!

Oooh getting it DONE, love it!! I hate the 'putting away' part of laundry day tho lol

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

Heya @Jynx How you doin’

Its all packed away.

Now to fold the sheets and doona cover that came of my bed @tyme

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tymeModerator

Re: I can’t cope

Good on you @Captain24 ! Well done. I know it took a lot of energy to get that done.

Let me know once the bedding is done too.

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JynxModerator

Re: I can’t cope

You got a trick for folding fitted sheets @Captain24 or do you use the 'shove/cram' technique like me? 🤣

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

Bedding is done @tyme and dishwasher unpacked and repacked.

So I have completed the ironing.

I’ve completed the kitchen

Ive complete the sheet change over.

I can now say I have completed something.

I still need to vacuum and sweep the floors.

I put the corners together of each side. Fold it in three and then roll @Jynx

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

My house is clean and I have things finished. Everything else on my list has to be done tomorrow like bath the dogs and clean the shower and shower screen oh and have a shower and wash my hair. It’s too late for the hair wash now as it won’t dry.

Thank you so much for your help tonight @tyme

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