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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

Just taking every minute as it comes @Snowie. That’s as far as I can see right now.

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tymeModerator

Re: I can’t cope

Yeah, it was expected @Captain24 . Nothing's changed.

I was surprised how well Ruby did actually.

LOL. My mum.... another story. Both mum and dad have cooked and cooked and cooked. Mum walks around following me with a spoonful of jelly. I had to tell her to leave me alone and that I didn't want jelly....

Poor things. I'm trying to stay level headed and respect them. I know they care.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@tyme I hope you enjoy your time in Sydney.

Are you just catching up with family or some friends too?

I'm glad Ruby travelled well.

Sounds like your mum and dad have cooked up a storm. At least you won't get hungry!!

@Captain24 taking it minute by minute is ok hon. It is still moving forward. Sometimes that's all we can do.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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My mum is similar. @tyme. She tries to feed us constantly when we are away.

How are you feeling with the other stuff. Is it making your tolerance level a little less bearable?

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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It’s all the same thoughts as last night. @Snowie.

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tymeModerator

Re: I can’t cope

I haven't really had quieter time to be still yet. Kids always everywhere...

Really? You mum feeds you?

Also, the little fire cracker here is so funny. We were coming home this arvo and she's in her booster seat in the car "Mum! My eyes are closing! I don't want them to close!"... then she fell fast asleep... She's so funny.

@Captain24

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thats ok @Captain24 if they are the same thoughts. There's no right and wrong with them. Some might hang around, some might not.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Yeah.. when we go away mum always buys stuff and is constantly making me try it. Different lollie, chocolates, sweets.. anything like that. Then all meals are big and guilt trip if you don’t eat it all. @tyme. It’s totally different though.

She is awesome. I love all her antidotes!

Do you have a good relationship with your other niece and nephew?

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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It’s actually worse @Snowie

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tymeModerator

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I don't know my niece and nephew so well. My nephew here is very quiet. The girl is more frisky @Captain24 She's an amazing swimmer though. She's only 6 and is in squads. She has competitions every Saturday.

But no, I can't say I'm close to them.

How's your family trip planning going? All sorted?

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