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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

I’m at work so I’m now safe

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rav3nSenior Contributor

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really appreciate you letting us know you're safe @Captain24 sending you some extra 💛💛

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JynxModerator

Re: I can’t cope

Aww @Captain24 sending you strength to get through tonight! May the shift go swift n smooth 🤞🫂

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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My email notifications are still not working @Jynx @Ru-bee @tyme

Is it just because I’m not wanted? Or is it too hard and I’m not worth worrying about? If that’s what it is I can just leave if you want, so you don’t have to bother with me anymore.

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Ru-beeModerator

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@Captain24 I'm so sorry that this issue is still going on, and saddened to hear that it's making you feel unwanted. We absolutely want you here, and connecting with you on here is never a bother.

To help you understand why it might be so hard to resolve I've been told by our IT team that they don't have direct access to the outgoing email outbox, so to access it they need to work with the company who hosts our forums through their program, and this really slows down the process. I don't want this to feel like an excuse, I just want you to know what is likely going on behind the scenes.

It's really important that we get this resolved for you and I can check where we're at with this today. Just to double check and to speed things up when I talk to IT, have you reported this as a technical issue?

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor

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It’s a technical they can’t fix doesn’t mean anything personal loads of people have already tried how does that translate to not worth it
You get plenty of attention it’s not like they are doing it to hurt you

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Yes I have @Ru-bee 3 times now but with no response. I’ve just re-logged it.

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Ru-beeModerator

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I thought so @Captain24 that's very frustrating, I'm going to try to get an update for you. It might not be today, but I have already started asking around so hopefully we'll be able to get some more insight into what's going on soon. I'll keep you posted

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Thank you. @Ru-bee. At least someone is trying to help. Logging is not working. It’s affecting me a lot and I’m in a really bad way all ready. It’s like I lose connection with others.

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Ru-beeModerator

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I hear you @Captain24 I really hope we can get it sorted ASAP

How has your day off been? Did you get some good rest after last night's shift?

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