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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

I need help @tyme. I haven’t been overly honest with my team in regard to this problem. My CM hasn’t seen

me and my dietitian is Telehealth. I don’t know where to reach out to with this one. Or to get similar situations.

The other problem was easier to find guidance with. I just still haven’t accepted it.

There is so much going on.

Have the kids been having sleep

overs?

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Doesn’t matter. I’m going to bed

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tymeModerator

Re: I can’t cope

Of course it matters @Captain24 . YOU matter!

Sorry, got caught up.

Give yourself time. Are you worried what others will think or say?

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Captain24Senior Contributor

Re: I can’t cope

Yes @tyme

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tymeModerator

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Do you think you are concerned about your family too @Captain24 ? How they would react?

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I don’t really have to say anything I guess @tyme. I guess don’t have to ‘come out’ unless I need to.

It’s a lot of what happens if people find out. Will I be judged. I’m judging myself. Which is stupid as I don’t judge anyone. Everyone has a right to be who they authentically are.

Being catholic, there is also that.

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tymeModerator

Re: I can’t cope

Heya @Captain24 ,

Sounds like you have a lot to think about @Captain24 . I can see why you would be feeling the way you are.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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Hey @tyme

Thanks.

Does your Christianity question it?

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tymeModerator

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Hey @Captain24 ,

I'm not here to complicate things for you. Purely for me, it wouldn't align with my beliefs, but this is me. I'm only saying it because you asked.

You need to find what's right for you.

I believe it is a journey of discovery.

I'm here for you.

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Captain24Senior Contributor

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I appreciate your honesty @tyme.

It doesn’t complicate things anymore than they already are but I feel like you get it. How difficult that certain issues can be. I’m not sure many others would.

Thanks for being with me. I know I’m being difficult.

On top of it all I’m having serious ED issues as well.

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