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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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I am safe.

I don’t want to live anymore.

I want it all to be over

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Hey @Captain24 whatcha up to?

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Hey @Captain24, thank you for letting the Forums know that you are safe. I'm sorry that you are feeling like this and pleased to see you staying connected here with your peers in the community. What has worked in the past when you have felt like this before? Would it be helpful to contact crisis support and have a chat with someone?

I will put a few numbers here so you have them handy:

Lifeline: 13 11 14 or Lifeline Chat

Beyond Blue: 1300 22 4636 or Beyond Blue Webchat

1800 RESPECT: 1800 737 732, www.1800respect.org.au

Suicide call back service: 1300 659 467 or Online Counselling

If in immediate danger: 000 www.triplezero.gov.au/triple-zero/How-to-Call-000

RiverSeal

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Sorry. Don’t realise you were around @RiverSeal. I’ll go.

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Hey @Captain24 I get that not all people get on and maybe you and RS have been at loggerheads in the past, I actually don’t know but your comment could be quite dismissive and could be perceived as a bit rude towards someone offering their help and could be implied like “oh, you’re here eye roll :face_with_rolling_eyes:”. If you have an issue with somebody and they are doing their best to offer you support, a thanks or nothing at all is probably a bit kinder than implying their mere presence is an issue for you… I like you Cap don’t get me wrong nothing personal, I just think if you want this to be a safe place as you have mentioned then you have to be part of upholding that too. No matter what you are going through on the other side of the screen people still deserve a little respect and basic kindness, you essentially posted a cry for help and then when that help was offered that is what was given in response, wouldn’t you too be hurt if that was you?

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I have time for you too @ArraDreaming.

Im not going into it.

Im not up for a disagreement

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Nah didn’t ask you to disagree or agree with me, just that if you’d like this community to be safe and respectful we all have to do our part and I didn’t think what you said was that if it was the first time I wouldn’t of said anything but it’s not, people are offering you help as you seem to be wanting and that is the response they are met with…. Hmm.

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Ok… goodbye.

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Hey @ArraDreaming @Captain24 @Bow @NatureLover ,

How's everyone today?

Hope things are okay. Hope you can join the Live Sunday Chat tonight 🙂

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Hey @tyme great here thanks, will be on after dinner hopefully
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