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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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Oh wow - whoever wrote those Affirmations for Depression clearly never had depression!!


@Captain24 wrote:

Its like no one listens. Yes I’ve done it before but maybe this time is different.

Its like all my CM says is that I have ‘long standing friendships’ that’s my best friend and a friend in town that we have lunch every couple of months. Apparently that shows that I’m a really good person and that my thoughts can’t really be that bad.


I can hear you feel people aren't validating your pain @Captain24 . And I am puzzled at your CM's logic! 😣

I hope your day at work goes OK today...

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I work tonight and tomorrow night @NatureLover.

Those affirmations were a bit of mark ay…

My CM also says that I’m not going to end my life, that’s why I got a second dog. She spent really get somethings but at other times she is great.

I hope you are doing ok?

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Hi @Ainjoule.

Nice to meet you.

They are a bit cute. It was only to keep them warm. They only wear stuff in the cold. I hate it when people dress dogs up. I have a friend who does it all the tim. My eldest dog and her dog love each other and she wants to do a wedding and have a tuxedo and wedding dress. I keep saying no.

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Hey @Captain24

Lovely to meet you too.

I have a small furbaby myself, and she also needs to wear a coat in winter as she feels the cold. They are great company hey. It was great to see your dogs.

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They are awesome company @Ainjoule

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My arsehole pup is about to cost me $2500! He needs knee surgery. He will be 8 months old.

Plus my Vet is leaving. She has been fabulous and has kept 2 of our dogs alive longer than they would have been. Also she is the orthopaedic surgeon and the only one out here. She has been fantastic with Pix and working on her socialisation skills.

I can’t believe my little boy needs surgery and my vet is leaving. I feel like I could just fall in a heap and cry. It feels like my heart is breaking. Poor Jett

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I need to be asleep for tonight but all I think about is my poor little boy and what I must have done wrong to break him. 😢

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Argh @Captain24 @that is rough!! Do you think he injured it playing? Jumping around?

It sucks that vets cost so much money! All my cats have cost me a fortune at the vet and I always say to myself after an expensive operation that I will get pet insurance but I never do and then regret it later on down the track.

will your vet get it done before they leave?

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Hi @Captain24 @Bow

Oh nooo that's rough for sure Captain.

But dont blame yourself, this wasn't your fault - these things happen 😞

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I’m assuming it was just how rough he is @Bow. He runs, jumps, crash tackles. He is just wild.

Im thinking that maybe I should look into pet insurance. I was just putting money away but it’s nowhere near enough.

She has to do it as she is the only one that can! I have called and left a msg saying I have the funds from Friday. So I’m hoping I can get him in early.He is booked in for the 27th bug I’m worried as I will be in hospital while he is still recovering.

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