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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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I'm actually beginning to wonder if it's soon time to look into another field of work @Captain24 . I've held this thought in me for a while.

Not because you are not good at your job, but just some of the things that have happened may be questionable in terms of your mental health.

As for your achievements, I agree you have done exceptionally well today!

It's so cold here. Is it warmer for you?

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Sounds like you are making most of your day @Captain24

Are you doing anything tonight?

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There is no where around here that pays the same so I can afford my mortgage. @tyme. I just have to learn to better cope. But I do agree it can be unhealthy

It’s cold now but lunchtime was reasonably nice. We did have a frost this morning so it usually means a nice day.

We had dinner last night @Snowie because we thought I’d be at work today. I did think of Thai takeaway but I just can’t leave the house again.

I have just had a meltdown and did things I said I wouldn’t do. It’s been a big day though.


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Can it you get delivery @Captain24?

Just getting Pizza's here

Too busy looking after D to cook. Plus it's Friday

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Nah… no delivery out here. @Snowie. I’m not hungry anyway. I’ve eaten a lot today!

Pizza’s are easy and good.

How is D doing

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Yep nice and easy @Captain24 S has a few friends over so something everyone will eat.

D is going ok. Just keeping on top of pain meds so she doesn't get too sore. Think she might have jelly for tea!

Have you got much planned for the weekend?

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Poor thing. @Snowie. Pain meds are good. Hopefully the pain eases for her soon.

Jelly is good, I was thinking ice cream but maybe it’s too cold.

Nah.. no plans, other than mow and wash the car. I need to find something though. @tyme Suggested walking the dogs and brunch so they are things I can try and do. I appreciate the suggestions

Do you have plans?

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Are you home alone tonight for your bday? You going to have a party with your babies tonight? @Captain24

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You made me laugh @tyme 😹

Yeah home alone. Thats what dinner was last night. I’m just watching tv with both of them on my lap and I gave them a bone each so they are happy.

Im thinking ice cream for dinner so they will like that too!

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Pain meds make her sleepy too @Captain24 so hopefully she sleeps tonight.

Walking the dogs and brunch sound nice. Have you got any pet friendly cafes around you? Maybe the dogs can go with you.

No plans, just see how D goes the next few days.

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