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Heartbroken

Heartbroken

I feel so heartbroken. My man seems to just don’t care. I made so much effort. God know how much I love him. I’ve been trying for so long to make us work but he is so cold. I am usually the one that’s texting but not obsessively just to keep the relationship going. This week I decided to give him space and to let him come to me when he feels like it. But I didn’t hear from him much. Last time we spoke he said that he really loves me. I don’t understand. I want to believe it but his actions says something completely different. I am done trying. I just can’t do this anymore, I am so tired. If he really loved me then I wouldn’t feel this way.

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Hi @Andrea1 good on you for trying, but keep being kind to yourself, think of what would you say to a freind going through the same thing.
but I understand we can’t help our heart from feelings, and our heart does rule our heads no matter what anybody tells us.

but life is short, so short, somebody else will come really, but they can’t when your not ready an open to it.

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@Clawde Honestly now that I think about what I would say to a friend, it would be to love her self more then him and to respect herself and to say goodbye to all the crap he is giving to her. One day he’ll be sorry. There is a limit to everything and there’s so much I can handle.

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Hey @Bunniekins @and @Andrea1 come over to keeping happy, having a rave with @Tab 👋

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@Clawde unfortunately I cannot talk with TAB as he upsets me at times.... I am sure he doesnt mean to but his comments at times sting. Best I stay away from him. pea💚

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@Bunniekins Who is Tab? Sorry I am new here xx

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@Andrea1 he is another member . Not allowed to say anything else site rules.

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@Bunniekins Oh okay

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@Andrea1 🙂

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Btw my man was texting me today few times, just simple. “Good morning beautiful” so much rain today”… Sometimes I feel like he keeps in touch just enough so we can meet when he needs me.

I still get butterflies when he messages me and just when I decide to try and move on he comes back. Yesterday I have booked an appointment with psychologist, because I know that he will get distant again and I can’t keep going like that. Been feeling so down the last couple of months.

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