Where is HenryX

@Oaktree I often worry about @Maggie who has been gone for so long ...... sometimes people just out grow the forum I think.

@Bunniekins I often worry about @Maggie too, and send wishes for her.

@Oaktree I remember @HenryX saying he was going to take a break to focus on his own issues for a while, or something to that effect?

Yep @NatureLover Me too.

@Oaktree In his lovely polite way @HenryX did mention spending less time, but he did not say he was actually leaving ... just taking a break.

Hugs @Bunniekins

Thanks guys @Appleblossom @NatureLover @Bunniekins

I haven’t really made strong connections with anyone other than @HenryX . If he isn’t around then there is little point in me being here either. I hope that he is well and comes back soon.

So sorry that @Maggie is no longer around. It’s hard to lose a friend. Maybe someday she will come back.

Love to all,

Meggle

Hi @Oaktree,
It's great to hear that you've formed such a strong and invaluable connection with HenryX. As you've mentioned yourself, it can be really hard when those we feel close to step away or take a break (effectively seeming to disappear). I'm hoping you will still be able to find connection and support here on the Forums, though not necessarily the same and want to encourage you to keep reaching out if and as needed.

With that in mind, I'm wondering if there is anything you can think of that was particularly valuable about the support HenryX may have provided you with? 💚

Hi @TideisTurning

I guess what @HenryX provided me with was a real feeling of friendship. I was lonely and he was always there with his characteristically well thought out responses. I appreciated his long replies and I would look forward to those. I hope that he is ok because last time I spoke with him he was feeling depressed. His medication got messed with because of shortages due to Covid.
I really do miss him but I understand the need to step away for a break from the forums. I am not as active here as I used to be after some difficult interactions with another member whom I really loved. I find personal interactions difficult sometimes but I never had such problems with HenryX!

Meggle

Oh @Oaktree I'm so sorry you're feeling the loss of your forum friend. I am only new so yet to meet HenryX but it sounds like you had a strong bond with him and really feeling the loss. It's so difficult when people disappear from our lives and because the forums are anonymous this is quite literal!

Sending warm hugs to you and reach out when you need.

hanami 💮

Thank you so much @hanami

Meggle

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@Oaktree wrote:

I haven’t really made strong connections with anyone other than @HenryX . If he isn’t around then there is little point in me being here either.

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Hi @Oaktree , I want to try and encourage you to stick around, if possible... My first strong connection left, then my second, then my third...but I've made more over my 2 years on the forums (for which I'm grateful).

One way to maybe meet new friends on here is to read the new people's posts maybe?

I hope you will stick around and make more connections...sending hugs...

Love this wisdom @NatureLover . You just never know who you might make that special connection with!

hanami 💮