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How do you cope on public holidays?

How do you cope on public holidays?

I don't mean this to be offensive to anyone who celebrates and appreciates Easter, but four days in a row without work is a little too much.

I think routine really helps my mental health.

It's especially frustrating this year because Easter coincides with Ramadan, so I can't go out anywhere because you're usually eating and drinking when you go out, and any retailers are probably closed anyway.

As I mentioned in my last post, it's kind of frustrating for my Mum to have everyone at home, because she feels like they should all be doing something, which creates a lot of drama. I just want this day to be over...

I especially fail to understand why, when a public holiday falls on a weekend, you get the next Monday off. Was a weekend not good enough?

I say this with ANZAC Day coming up next week... that one I definitely understand a lot more, but you still run into the same problems.

Do you have trouble with your mental health on public holidays, and what do you do to cope?

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Bi @florencefifty I do, I struggle so much over public holidays, the emoty streets, closed shops.

I'm a lonely isolated person, and these days make it harder to ignore that fact,

I can't go to public places like a bookstore or Cafe and just be with ppl, and feel a little safer.

I assume in my head everyone is socialising or connected on these days...in my head I'm the only person in this state.

This year I was in hopsital which, I guess, was q bit better.

Sat and Sunday were slow and painful, Friday was ok as we still had some programming and mu Dr was available

I try make it fun when I'm alone or at home, but honestly, doesn't work.

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@florencefifty @I totally understand how you feel..

it would be hard in your situation with so many people at home ....

If you Google Easter Monday you will see that it is part of the Christian tradition...

and the other reason is it gives people who went away time to get back home in time for work on Tuesday ..as you know...

the same thing happens with Christmas ....you notice that there are replacement public holidays when Christmas Day falls on a weekend ....

I reckon they should get rid of the Queen's Birthday in June ....we have enough public holidays

When the public holidays fall on Friday or Monday I don't get paid...nothing I can do we live in Australia and we pay a lot of tax

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The Queen’s birthday was moved from June to October in Qld which I think is stupid as her birthday is actually in April. I wonder if it will change to November when Charles is king???

I live in a tourist area where the shops are mostly open, the crowds are back and the traffic horrendous. The shops were closed on Good Friday and you’d have thought they were closing for a year judging by the crowds on Thursday!!!

As I once worked shift work the public holidays were a bonus but now I work regular hours except when on call so I try to catch up at home on public holidays or do stupid things like entertain the family with all the stress that brings.

I hope you have a smooth transition back this week @jamesle2015 @florencefifty @EternalFlower

Take care ❤️

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Hi @Eve7 that sounds stressful, that Friday was so busy.

Hope you're OK.

Today was quiet and so many shops closed as I walked around

I miss routine, and reliability

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Thanks @EternalFlower I’m calm tonight and looking forward to meeting friends for breakfast.

Sleep well 💚

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Hi @Eve7 hope breakfast was nice?

I'm feeling a bit hectic internally, inner pressure and impatience.

Little things are weighing heavy.

I hope tomorrow is better and brighter like u have shared @Eve7

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Breakfast was really good @EternalFlower thanks for asking. I’m lucky to have a small group of lovely friends and I don’t know where I’d be without them.

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Hi @florencefifty @Eve7

It is another public holiday tomorrow, I hope all are coping 🙏

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