pancakesSenior Contributor
Processing some bad news
I am in a bit of shock. I just found out my ex was cheating on me… I’m not even sure what to think of this
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pancakesSenior Contributor
I am in a bit of shock. I just found out my ex was cheating on me… I’m not even sure what to think of this
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@pancakes Hey pancakes my partner of 23 years cheated on me when I was ill .... we are now good friends. Do I forgive him no but I am better off with him as a friend. Am here if you need a friend. Love peaxxx
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
@pancakes I'm sorry to hear this 😞 Another thing for you to process, oh no 😞
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AussieRechargerSenior Contributor
Hey @pancakes..
Do you have any questions you are asking yourself? Welcome to post them here and we can go through them together.
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pancakesSenior Contributor
Thank you guys for responding.. @AussieRecharger i don’t really know what I’m thinking about it all just yet
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pancakesSenior Contributor
@Bunniekins That sounds like a very painful thing to go through, I’m so sorry he put you through that
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@pancakes yes it hurts but I am now happy that I am single. We are stronger than we think 🤗
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@pancakes dont be sad pancakes you have friends here who will support you,x
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pancakesSenior Contributor
More bad news today. Turns out divorce is a really shitty process. Hooray for that time when I was a dumb ass and got married. Hooray for that.
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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
I'm so sorry @pancakes that hurts deep.
Lighting a candle and playing some CB. With you in spirit precious friend 💙
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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
Sending you love @pancakes
I think of you often. Tonight is no different. Hoping life is treating you well 🙂
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