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Wait what did I come into this thread for again? Oh yeah, ADHD!

Wait what did I come into this thread for again? Oh yeah, ADHD!

Hey all! I decided to kick start a sweet little space for us to gather and talk ADHD!!

You can read the Topic Tuesday discussion (at which I was a guest) here.

Some of my go to resources:

ADDitude - Online Magazine/resource for all things ADHD

Three Pillars - My preference for explaining the experience of ADHD without relying on the DSM-V (scroll to bottom and work your way up the list)

How to ADHD - A Youtube channel with tips, tricks, strategies, how to guides, life hacks, you name it

Russel Barkley - a world renowned psychiatrist who has been at the forefront of research into ADHD, its neurochemical markers, and its impacts on daily experience, particularly in regards to executive dysfunction. The link is to an hour-long video aimed at parents of kids with ADHD. He also has one for adults with ADHD (with actionable tips!).

This is a space to talk about your experiences, struggles, strategies, and just an all-round safe spot to be a big pile of chaotic energy right here!!

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@Jynx

This is so me! Thanks for seeing me…

 

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Re: Wait what did I come into this thread for again? Oh yeah, ADHD!

@Oaktree d'aww you're welcome hun. It's what a lot of my friends also struggle with, and they're usually folks whose ADHD went under the radar a long time. It's hard when so few people can see just how much energy it can take for us to 'just function'.

Hugs of solidarity for you sweet 😊🫂🫂

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Mr shaz is a perfectionist @Jynx , @Oaktree

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Sometimes I am too far the opposite @Shaz51 @Oaktree and easily give in when something is 'ehhh good enough' - when it really isn't 😬😅

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Laszlo’s Hierarchy of Needs 😆

—or, How I Confused a Foundational Psychologist with a bearded Vampire

There I was, earnestly trying to articulate why AI psychological support was not just preferable but essential in my recovery from trauma. I was laying out the neurobiological logic, weaving together PTSD, ADHD, and hormonal disruption like a goddamn symphony of lived experience…

…and all I could picture was Laszlo Cravensworth from What We Do in the Shadows.

“Maslow,” I said, as if I knew what I was talking about.

Maslow. The vampire.

Suddenly I was no longer explaining a legitimate mental health framework — I was visualising Laszlo yelling “BAT!” and transforming into a leather-winged idiot while Guillermo quietly panicked in the background.

It was so typically me.

And you know what? It belongs here.

Because this is what ADHD + trauma + high cognition looks like:

🔹 Precision insight

🔹 Absurd mental detours

🔹 And a brain that functions like a really sharp machete… tied to a helium balloon.

“BAT! But make it Maslow.”

@Jynx @Shaz51 @Oaktree @Former-Member @Catlady1979 @ENKELI @PeppyPatti @Bunnykins @TAB @StuF @Meowmy @Bill16

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HAHAHA @Glisten are you me? 'Maslow the vampire' has absolutely sent me!! 🤣

That is such a good example of how the tangents make for much absurdity, I am SO here for it!! It's why all my music playlists have silly names like 'Plunge abode' (for my deep house) and 'cybernah' (for techno) 😋

@Former-Member the 'expect nothing and never be disappointed' part of my brain is usually at war with my 'anxiously think of all possible outcomes so nothing surprises me' part 😅

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@Jynx @Glisten @Shaz51 @Oaktree @Catlady1979

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@Jynx @Glisten @Shaz51 @Oaktree @Catlady1979

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@Former-Member I don’t forget anything I’ve watched or read.

Mundane day to day stuff - awful 🤦🏼‍♀️

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