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Topic Tuesday // Let’s Chat: Chronic Pain & Mental Health // Tues 1st March, 7:00-8:30PM AEDT

Topic Tuesday // Let’s Chat: Chronic Pain & Mental Health // Tues 1st March, 7:00-8:30PM AEDT

Topic Tuesday // Let’s Chat: Chronic Pain & Mental Health // Tues 1st March, 7:00-8:30PM AEDT

Hi SANE Lived Experience Forum,


Many of our community here on the forums have mentioned that they live not only with the challenges that come with Complex Mental health but also with Chronic Pain.


We are curious to explore the connection between the two and share more information around this topic and living with chronic pain.

So, we invite you to join us for this discussion and look forward to hearing from your own experiences and questions you’d like to put forward to our guest.

Please join the discussion here on Tuesday the 1st of March 2022 from 7:00pm-8:30pm AEDT to follow this conversation.

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Hopefully see you there in the chat on the night!
Flybluebird 🪶

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Let’s Chat: Chronic Pain & Mental Health // Tues 1st March, 7:00-8:30PM AEDT

Q2. What are some of the common pathways to a diagnosis of chronic pain?

Diagnosing chronic pain is not easy. Depending on the condition, it can take several years to receive a correct diagnosis. Usually all pathways begin with a primary care physician/GP who can then make a referral to an appropriate specialist, such as a rheumatologist. From there, diagnostic assessments & imaging may (or may not) occur to confirm a suspected diagnosis. This sounds easy enough, so why do many people with chronic pain find that they must wait years for a proper diagnosis? First, some chronic pain conditions may have various symptoms that do not ‘add up’ until someone is finally able to connect the dots.

My diagnosis journey went on for 30 years due to the difficulty of connecting the dots. When I was a child, I experienced a lot of joint & back pain and was told that it was simply growing pains. I am quite tall with long limbs, so it was easy to accept that answer and move on. I would also experience headaches and sometimes nose bleeds during summer but was told that this was just because of the changes in air pressure. I experienced oral health challenges and was told to simply brush my teeth more than the usual recommended guidelines. All these symptoms, along with many others, were treated independently rather than holistically because they did not fit a profile of something commonly diagnosed. It was not until I reached adulthood that the dots were finally connected, and I received a proper diagnosis of Ehlers-danlos Syndrome.

Stigma also plays a huge role in the length of time it can take to diagnose a pain condition properly. Some medical professionals are ill-informed and therefore ill-equipped to supporting those living with pain conditions. Individuals who live with conditions such as endometriosis, for example, often report facing huge medical stigma, bias and trauma because the extreme pain they experience is not validated or respected. This stigma passes the burden onto patients to either ‘prove’ their pain or invalidate their own experiences through self-blame and shame. There is so much more that needs to be done to change the ways chronic pain is diagnosed. Having a strong circle of both formal and informal supports can make this process less daunting because it serves as a reminder that your experience is real and is believed by others. Tracking your symptoms, whether through an app or diary, can also help here.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Let’s Chat: Chronic Pain & Mental Health // Tues 1st March, 7:00-8:30PM AEDT

I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia shortly after my daughter was born. I have good days and bad days.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Let’s Chat: Chronic Pain & Mental Health // Tues 1st March, 7:00-8:30PM AEDT

@Bow I hear you with the good days and bad days, and try to savour every moment on the good days to get me through the tougher ones. Solidarity with you

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Let’s Chat: Chronic Pain & Mental Health // Tues 1st March, 7:00-8:30PM AEDT

The doctors say it is arthritis

The specialist says it is because of my CKD

Night time are the worst , pains in different areas of the body , find it hard to move in the mornings @Former-Member , @Former-Member , @cloudcore

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Let’s Chat: Chronic Pain & Mental Health // Tues 1st March, 7:00-8:30PM AEDT

Great to have you join us here on this conversation @Bow, sorry to hear that you experience the flare ups on a day to day basis 💜

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Let’s Chat: Chronic Pain & Mental Health // Tues 1st March, 7:00-8:30PM AEDT

Hello @Bow ❤

@Former-Member , I can not take anti inflammatory meds because of the kidney

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Let’s Chat: Chronic Pain & Mental Health // Tues 1st March, 7:00-8:30PM AEDT

@Bow 💛

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Let’s Chat: Chronic Pain & Mental Health // Tues 1st March, 7:00-8:30PM AEDT

I’m with you @Shaz51 the mornings are rough. Getting my body moving is really important for me. And getting a good nights sleep too.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Let’s Chat: Chronic Pain & Mental Health // Tues 1st March, 7:00-8:30PM AEDT

It seems that @Shaz51 @Bow you have touched on what we were going to bring with our next question.... @Former-Member

Question 3. - What have been some of the ways chronic pain impacts your life and how do you live with it?

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Let’s Chat: Chronic Pain & Mental Health // Tues 1st March, 7:00-8:30PM AEDT

@Bow @Shaz51 Mornings can be so tough, hey! Sometimes it's like no amount of rest will help in the morning

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