Connect with people who understand what you are going through,
seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're
free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.
For the past 20 years people have expected me to accept riddles, charades and " joining the dots" as "life". Lol..no more! I dont have the time or IQ to "endure" any more lessons in maturity. Time for u to grow up and start telling the truth..try not to hide behind anyone either...ok?
What a wonderful resolution @Hamburger! You'll have a lot of hard work to get there, to change those ways of living your life that are now firmly ingrained habits.
Trying to change everything thing at once never works for me. Wouldn't it be great if we could just wave a magic wand and Tadahhh everything is perfect 😇 Doesn't work that way though, does it.
How about writing a list of what you want to change and then work out which one bugs you the most. Just work on that one for as long as you need to to feel more confident that you won't go back to your old ways.
Drag out that personal strength and courage you so obviously have and get started. You will win this battle! 👍
We're improving how you access SANE services, starting with Forums
You’ll soon be able to use one secure login to access all SANE services.
For added security, members are now required to log in with their email address and password - member names are no longer supported for logging in.
If you had a Forums account before 19 May 2026 and haven’t set up your new login yet, you'll be prompted to set up your new secure login when you sign-in.