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When I joined Saneforums, my name was Justanother46yr

then changed to PeppyPatti

burned out, I was doing a LOT of writing

abused the moderators and ran away.

I was just going to butt in to @ENKELI hug and ask for one too…

Is this cool…..

Iv had many many years old therapy to be me.

My attitude has changed dramatically on sane forums @Glisten

Its always nice to have the truth around you isn’t it.

How is the Aframe going ? I look for some people’s messages. One of them is yours.

Remember not to call the lawyers, that will cost you money but if you need help for your afferdavid, I’m here. What do you call it again ?

@PeppyPatti what do I call it?

A Sh!tfest, @PeppyPatti That’s what I usually call it. lol 😂

To be honest @Glisten …

The thing I HATE is enablers.

My Mum is very intelligent, bitter, lonely. A liar.

And pretty much everyone, even my brothers believed it until about 3 years ago.

Who’s the fool here.

A few years ago, I went with her to visit her friend who was just staring at me. Ive told you this. I went to see her the next week ( with cake from South Street cafe in South Fremantle)

she told me that Mum had said I had an iq of a 9 yearold and couldn’t take care of my sons. I smiled and said, that’s fine, If you believe it okay.

then this story came out…… about her behaviour …….

The lady and I have a wonderful friendship now and she tells me that thank goodness I had that accident, it’s Mum a reason to live.

So, Im free. I haven’t died. There are many many people stories who are so much more terrible than mine.

@TAB @Appleblossom …………

@MJG017 @ArraDreaming

It didn't did it @MJG017

But like me, we know the truth today.

And have support.

Have you started typing it up ?

@PeppyPatti other people’s life events, don’t make yours less worse.

big HUGS 🫂 Squeezes

@PeppyPatti The truth shall set us free as they say. There's a bunch of people I could blame and be angry at, but it wouldn't affect them so holding on to any of that only hurts me. So I try my best to just let it go and look for support in getting me though.

So you have every reason to be so angry, especially with your mother and all the terrible things she's done and said about you. I doubt your anger affects her, if she even notices. So you don't have to forgive her, but you can stop her from bringing you down any more. Be free from her cruelty. And with some luck, some of those broken relationships because of your mother can start to be healed over time. People will see the real you and know that what they were told about you were lies. Let them see the wonderful, caring person that we know.

I'm on too U two

@Glisten @ENKELI

Living in a beautiful suburb with people that .....um.......are best not getting close to because their extra curricular activities are not my scene -

But where I live is amazing. My unit is lovely.

I just go to therapy and get NDIS carers .........

And then the good luck shines my way again. My quilter of the quilts I sew wants to be my carer !!! Kerzzzow !! I'll be getting lessons quilting !! 😁

Then......

My oldest brother and I are making steps to having a reuniting .......wow.....

Yes ..... What you wrote I felt you get my grieving.

But like you - differently we both have much to celebrate.

You help me. Thankyou.

@MJG017