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Hey @Bunniekins OH mate. . Its ok. I used to do the odd bit of creative writing to try and make sad people laugh and used to step on "word land mines" all the time. All well meaning, but it happens.

In the end they used to fix mine up for me and just post em. cutlery items. My dum ass still forgets.

You and me are people grounded in a place of peace. It does more good than harm this lawn we walk on, and dogy doo scrapes off. Don't let it mar your blue sky. Big smile . . tomorrows a whole new day. https://youtu.be/zOBpER0M44I?si=6KqXdiKEd8F7cOmJ

any more fossils like this and we'll be sharing a cell greenpea tones

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@Kyle1 @tonys @StuF @Bunniekins @Meowmy @Appleblossom @StanD

Well chosen for the mood @Kyle1

Gentle Hugs @Bunniekins

I believe we need to be able to hold space for all human feelings and moods responsibly. How that is done seems to be a big discussion with a lot of opinions and different needs. Guess that is a challenge for the forum moderators over what is deemed acceptable. Pretending that everything is hunky dory all the time will remove the forum from a truth telling function.

I hope the forum keeps as openminded as possible, with not all discussion behind closed doors, because too many secrets is not in the spirit of seeking sanity, in my book, or so I have been told.

Generally I have accepted the mods positions cos it never seemed worth argument from what I was going through. I do think we need to move on from a false obsession with safety. It seems illusory to ensure that, and the loss of authentic sharing and hurt and rejection and feeling wronged as well as not allowing people to develop robustness and resilience may be a 'side effects'.., to consider.

Thanks @TAB @StuF @tonys @Meowmy and all.

Well put @Appleblossom .

well said @Appleblossom

@Kyle1 @TAB @Appleblossom @tonys @StuF hey everyone spoke to respect last night/morning and the woman i spoke to was wonderful. feeling in a better place. beautiful weather here sun shining and not hot. hope you all are having a wonderful day. take care and love to you all, peax

Thankyou @Bunniekins . Glad you found your sunshine again. Even felt that peck on the cheek.

Made an old codger blush you did. Sweet dreams pea.. tonys

Bit above my pay grade the moderation business @Appleblossom . Only thing I know to a certainty is

One person using vial ugly words to attack another should never be allowed on the forum and they should be exposed for all to see by leaving the post up. Other wise the strong take their bad days out on the week, and the garden is not a place of peace anymore.

Who would put their hand up to be a moderator. definatley not me .

There is a whole world of dog eat dog competition and free speech out there that welcomes bullies with open arms. Thousands of websites. . . Then there is this one

safe place I come to for some peace. Long as it last I'll come to draw water. When its gone . . . people will seek safety elsewhere. I get more than enough training to be a tough resilient guy in the real world 24 7

Here . I just want to put the armour down. tones