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R1CK13Contributor
In response to: Self blame
AloneSenior Contributor
Hi R1ck,
3 weeks! thats still a brand new baby, congratulations 🙂 The best start any parent can give their child is a loving, caring parent and it sounds like you are doing that perfectly. I can only imagine how tough and emotional it must be to have a little one that isn't well, my heart goes out to you.
In response to: Self blame
espritSenior Contributor
In response to: Re: Self blame
AppleblossomSenior Contributor
I was like that with my first childbirth, blamed myself for it not being a totally natural birth. Gradually, as the day to day rolls on ... we realise that the great privilege of parenting is also a testament to us being human. Dont be too hard on yourself, with a sick bub, you need every bit of positive energy and kindness for you both.
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