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Starting to struggle

Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

Starting to struggle

I was doing so well, my moods where manageable and now I feel like I'm losing control my anxiety is bad my flashbacks are more present, family are causing lots of stress and controlling me I don't know what to do, it all feels really to overwhelming.

I feel like my whole world is falling apart, my stress levels are high, my moods are always fluctuating, I have random anger outbursts, I'm isolating myself from nearly everyone.

My dad hasn't even really contacted me, I'm really upset, I feel like he doesn't care or even wants to give me a call to see how I am. His wife is really controlling and she tends to judge me. They want me to go to Christmas with them and I don't even want to see them.

I find this time of year is triggering.

Am safe

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tymeModerator

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@Fluttershy1 - I think spag bol tonight for dinner. You?

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

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I don’t know what I want @tyme - I might just have cheesy pasta

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tymeModerator

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Do you cook @Fluttershy1 ? I don't like cooking.

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

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I made salad instead @tyme - couldn’t be bothered cooking

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

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@Peregrinefalcon@hanami @Jynx - hello how are you?

i have a busy life with my bunnies now and studying, I have achieved quite a few goals lately and I’m proud. I can even drive now!!!

Im studying to become a support worker and then I’m going to do a MH course because I want to help others.

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PeregrinefalconSenior Contributor

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That's great to hear @Fluttershy1! Sounds like you are kicking some major goals which is a lot to be proud of 💛I hope amongst it all you have plenty of time for chilling out too!

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

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Yes yes I am resting @Peregrinefalcon - when did you get a new badge?

it suits you 🙃

I even signed up for gym, the buns say hi so does Romeo with a meowwwwww

 

I feel like I’m becoming a different me, I feel more in control and proud of myself, it can be hard sometimes but knowing I can push through helps.

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PeregrinefalconSenior Contributor

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What an exciting time for you @Fluttershy1, I am super proud of you!! You are clearly putting in some hard work.

Very cute pics of Romeo (not so little anymore!) and your rabbits!

The badge is new-ish, just a few months old! 😊

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor

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@Peregrinefalcon - I see you took a new position missing you on here. I hardly come on here anymore. Just looking after myself and been busy with my everyday life.

study is a big thing for me atm.
Big steps forward now.

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PeregrinefalconSenior Contributor

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@Fluttershy1 Huge steps forward!! Seriously amazing stuff. So happy to hear about all of this, have missed your stories!

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