MoonGal - My Mum died having a hard time keeping my head above water

Ohhh hugs my @MoonGal ❤

Hello @AnnaMae1 , @AussieRecharger , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member

Losing my mother was hard it was just me and her living together for 20 years in the a shared unit , I was her carer when. She got dementia and with her all through palliative care , ones her mainstay through her illness as other family members did not live close by , it's taken a big toll on me no social life no partner , just getting back into the workforce it's very hard after being out of this for over 7years , it's took an enormous physical and mental toll on myself it's very hard to find normality counselling did not help.no idea of what's required be a carer , but you got pick yourself up or you will be left behind , and become a statistic yourself , your mum would not want you to be struggling do keep this in your mind , and try to take it 1 day at a time my friend it does get easier as time goes by think.of the good times you had this will help your mental health , stay positive it gets better it's been 2years since my mum past just make her proud of you ok you will get there