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Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Hi there SANE Forums Community,

This fortnight we invite you to join in a discussion about communities and the places where you feel connection and belonging. For many of us, finding community and people that we feel connected with can be a journey, and SANE Peer Support Worker @Former-Member will be joining us to share her experience of finding like minded people, and places she feels most connected.

Every person's experience of community is unique, and the path to finding belonging and connection can take many twists and turns. We would love to hear your experience of finding community, and your advice to others who may still be searching for places they feel they can be their authentic selves.

The role of community, connection and belonging in recovery

A big part of recovery for many people is finding spaces where we can be our authentic selves. Finding connection with others who share similar values, interests or experiences can help us to feel a sense of belonging, and reduce feelings of isolation.

For so many of us living with mental health concerns, there are times in our recovery journey we might feel really alone. I know I certainly have at times. Finding our tribe and our people can help us in our recovery, as belonging to a community promotes our social wellbeing, and allows us to be seen and held for who we truly are.

Join us to talk about the role of community, connection and belonging in your life, and how we can build up our dream communities.

Please join the discussion here on Tuesday the 7th of December 2021 from 7:00pm-8:30pm AEST to follow this conversation.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Welcome @Eve7 🙂 Not a problem at all, I hope that reading has been valuable tonight!

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT


@Former-Member wrote:

What would your dream community/ies look like?

In a broad sense; what first came to mind was a beautiful diverse group of misfits who challenge the status quo, having fun doing it & being able to be themselves & share that with the world. Hahaha….


I like that. But, IMHO, "diverse" has become such a loaded word in this day and age.

I'm all for "diversity" in a way... but I'm sick to death of people who are so far flung from me that I have no hope of understanding them, what makes them tick, or how on earth I'm supposed to handle them.

I've got nothing against a diverse community - so long as that diversity is sufficiently constrained that I can still understand them all, and feel a solid bond of commonality between us.

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

7. How do you find others who share your dream of communities?

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT


@Daisydreamer wrote:

7. How do you find others who share your dream of communities?


Good question!

BTW, are we straying past our 8:30 closing time?

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT


@Shaz51 wrote:

Hello @Eve7 😀❤

@Daisydreamer , @Former-Member

I would love to have the same experience with Sane forum put in my real life would be great


@Shaz51, I really hold hope that you find that community in your real life world too, and so grateful you are here with us at SANE

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

How do you find others who share your dream of communities

Well as we know from here on the forums you can find some online or in your local community spaces.

A quick brainstorm & options might be through:

  • local community centres
  • council services
  • libraries - often have leaflets about various groups
  • online searches
  • searching for the specific activity, sport or hobby
  • maybe its also finding various types of work environments that align with own set of values or purpose
  • Facebook have various groups
  • Art, theatre or music centres, meet up groups

    Your thoughts?

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT


@chibam wrote:

@Daisydreamer wrote:

7. How do you find others who share your dream of communities?


Good question!

BTW, are we straying past our 8:30 closing time?


Yes we are just slighty, this is the last question 🙂

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Haha cool @chibam

Keep going @Daisydreamer , @Former-Member

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Hi @Daisydreamer

It has been an ongoing process. The community in which I live and the activities that I mentioned earlier have offered me considerable support. Sometimes, I have said yes to an invitation when I would otherwise have hesitated. There have been situations where, having smiled in response to observations have opened doors and even caused barriers to diminish in difficulty of 'getting through'. I am currently talking with a counsellor about issues and barriers (internal) that I have postponed addressing, probably for much longer than I should have. More to follow.... but that's a start

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Finding community: Feeling belonging and connection // Tuesday 7th December, 7:00- 8:30PM AEDT

I like it when you say “where life isn’t compulsory and suicide isn’t taboo” @chibam

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