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wild_roseSenior Contributor
My partner decided last night that he wants a break from the relationship. I feel crushed.
I'm being admitted again tomorrow to the same psych facility I was in last time.
I never wanted any of this. All I wanted was to return to work.
This year definitely has been the worst year on record for me. 2 broken bones, 3 lots of major surgery, 2 major breakdowns and now this. I'm just over it. Over everything. I'm exhausted and am not coping.
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Unknown userMember
Hey there @wild_rose I can understand why you feel exhausted.
Sounds like a really difficult year, I’m sorry that you’ve experienced all of that.
I think just one of those things would really impact someone at any given time.
I think it show’s a lot of resilience at just how you’re doing right now despite that & reaching out here along fellow peers.
Did you find any part of being at the facility helpful last time?
Here with you @wild_rose
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DimitySenior Contributor
@wild_rose just a note to say how sorry I am for what you're going through. Good on you for reaching out. I hope and trust that you'll find some respite and healing over the next little while. Sending you best wishes
Dimity
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LostAngelSenior Contributor
sending @wild_rose some love your way 
your definetly not the only one whos had a tough year ,lots of us here can understand,take a break from everything and focus on you,hope things improove after some rest and care
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AussieRechargerSenior Contributor
Hey @wild_rose
Moe often than not, we are given the things we do not want. Here for you, if you need to talk.
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wild_roseSenior Contributor
Hi @Former-Member
Last time I was here I started making progress but was discharged early due to a crisis. I'm hoping this time to be released when I'm in a better place.
@Dimity @LostAngel @AussieRecharger Thank you all. The support helps me fell less alone. It's been a hard few days, trying to stay strong and putting on a facade so my Mum doesn't see how bad an effect it's having on me, I'm exhausted and now can finally process and fall apart if needed
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PaperdaisySenior Contributor
Glad you are in a safe place @wild_rose Take care 💕
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AussieRechargerSenior Contributor
@wild_rose
Your welcome.. What are you feeling right now? like when you think of how your hands and feet and body feels?
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wild_roseSenior Contributor
@AussieRechargerTo be perfectly honest I'm not entirely sure how I am feeling, if I had to describe it I would probably say very numb, I haven't really cried, which is unusual, everything feels so surreal, like a nightmare I am just waiting to wake from, I think I might be in a dissociative state, but not entirely sure.
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AussieRechargerSenior Contributor
Shock maybe @wild_rose ?
How about today.. anything changed?
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wild_roseSenior Contributor
@AussieRechargershock I guess is a possibility.
Today I'm not travelling too well. I'm worried about everything. My mum has said that whilst I can stay with her when I'm out it can only be for a few days then I need to perhaps organiser a caravan in a park
I've managed to organiser a room at the pub I work at, but my dogs can't come with me. She's offered to look after them for a little while, but I know that means a few weeks maximum and that there will be strings attached at some point
I'm scared of not finding a place and I'm scared I'm going to loose my babies too. They are literally all I have left and the only thing holding me together. Even the thought of loosing them upsets me. I don't know what to do anymore.
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