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Movember and Men's mental health

Movember and Men's mental health

Raising awareness of men’s mental health on the SANE Forums

The month of November is for Movember, and we will be discussing and raising awareness of men’s mental health issues here on the forums.

Movember started in 2003 in Melbourne and has since become an international event and a positive symbol of men’s health. Movember has funded more than 1,250 projects worldwide and include programs that strengthen social connectivity, parenting programs, youth programs, practical tools to support conversations with men and an evidence-based training course to upskill health professionals on treating male clients.

According to the Movember website ‘The world loses a man to suicide every minute of every day’. That’s an alarming statistic and one the Movember foundation is determined to change. We know that by improving overall mental health and social connections of men, we can help improve this statistic.

MensLines Australia tell us that mental health issues amongst men and women are about the same, however in Australia, only 40% of men are accessing mental health services and are more likely to use coping strategies that can impact health and wellbeing such as drugs and alcohol, withdrawal and suicide.

Men’s mental health has come a long way, but we still have a long way to go so let’s celebrate our men and have the conversations we need to have so men can live longer and happier lives.

Movember supports ALL men and recently funded the Stop. Think. Respect campaign aimed to reduce anxiety and depression within LGBTQIA+ communities. We love that! Unfortunately, trans men are exposed to discrimination that negatively impacts their mental health and wellbeing. One study by beyond blue found that trans people experience very high levels of depression and anxiety and members of the LGBTQIA+ community are four times more likely to attempt suicide.

SANE too wants to support ALL men so please know this space does just that, however we will also be having a discussion supporting trans men in an additional thread, so look out for that too.

How will we be marking Movember on the SANE Forums?

This discussion will be open for the month of November, with a new question every Monday. We will be sharing some insights and hopefully learning from our fellow forumites. Peer support is such a key component of looking after men’s mental health, so the more the merrier!

You can get involved by:

  • Making a post in response to each question
  • Supporting posts made by other members
  • Reading along
  • Sharing your experiences and resources

Here are some SANE resources to get you started

Tips for men from men

Challenging stereotypes of masculinity

Talking about men's mental health

Check back in each Monday for a question! If you would like to be tagged when each new question is posted, click the "support" button on this post and we will make sure to notify you.

Open and honest discussions are really important, and we are committed to making this discussion a safe space for all people to share their experiences, thoughts and ideas. To keep this space safe and respect the experiences of our community, we ask that all members refresh their understanding of the community guidelines in advance so that we can make this discussion inclusive and welcoming.

If you have any questions about this month-long discussion, you are welcome to email the forums team at team@saneforums.org

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Re: Movember and Men's mental health

Absolutely @Paperdaisy
One resource I’d like to share that I know about is Mr Perfect - More than a BBQ.

https://mrperfect.org.au/
Mr Perfect - More than a BBQ
is a registered health promotion charity.

Excerpt from their about page:
‘Like many men, our founder realised he was not Mr Perfect. After a lifetime of mental challenges, he finally navigated a semblance of a path to tackle them and found there was something missing in the support he accessed. Ironically his best mate called him “Mr Perfect” for years without knowing his struggle.

Mr Perfect is a grassroots charity that brings men together at BBQs in local parks across Australia, to create community and connection.

However, we are more than a BBQ. Online we provide support, information and resources for the good of men’s health.’


You can search to see if they offer any BBQ gatherings near your local area as there are ones Australia wide or you can see how to start one up of your own.

On their webpage they also have a whole directory of other relevant men specific services that are available that people may not have heard of.

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Re: Movember and Men's mental health

Tagging @TAB @Determined @Adge @pancakes @Jacques in case they are interested 🙂

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Yeah I think that's why it exists @MDT maybe to make it easier to talk about. Sorry it's hard for you. Thank you for being here anyway🙏😊

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I so wish i could grow a beard for movember, but they get way to itchy for me @Anastasia i do support it though, it is a wonderful idea, men do have anxiety and do have depression, i hope in time society changes to see mental illness not as a weakness but as a strength for reaching out for help

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Well said mate
@Jacques

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men do have anxiety and do have depression, i hope in time society changes to see mental illness not as a weakness but as a strength for reaching out for help


That's a wrap!

Thank you to everyone who has posted in this thread. I think it highlights how difficult these conversations still are for men and I can only hope that by providing these spaces and us all sharing our ideas we can move towards change.

@chibam you have shared some good points about resilience and although I try to do this now with my own Son, I will try and make more of a conscious effort, so thank you!

Thank you again for everyone who shared their experiences and resources💕

@frog @Anastasia @MDT @chibam @Everan @Jacques @Former-Member @TideisTurning

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i support Movember and what it stands for
I just think it will struggle more in the future unfortunately - perhaps i will be wrong, i mean i hope i am
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