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Happiness

Happiness

Our final emotion’s discussion is on happiness.

Previously we spoke about anger, fear and sadness and discussed how we experienced these emotions , how they showed up in our lives and how they felt physically in our bodies. We will be doing the same this fortnight for the yellow section of the wheel!

Happiness is an emotional state characterized by feelings of joy, confidence, contentment, and hope. While happiness has many different definitions, it is often described as involving positive emotions and life satisfaction.

Happiness is an important emotion as it helps protect your health, expands your focus and helps you build stronger coping skills and emotional resources. Happiness also leads to curiosity and allows your mind to open up to a free flow of ideas! Contrast this to when you’re angry, your focus narrows to the source of your frustration, and your stress and blood pressure can increase.

Happiness however is like any other emotion, and can come and go quickly or linger for long periods of time. Often in the age of social media there is a lot of pressure to maintain and portray happiness to others. This is a space for us to discuss our experiences and feelings of happiness, whilst recognising it as an emotion that has no more importance than the others discussed – of anger, fear and sadness.

There are questions we have planned ahead of time to keep this conversation safe and constructive for those reading along, however you are welcome to reach out to our peer support or counselling services for additional support should any topics be upsetting or triggering.

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@cloudcore

My feelings are cheeky

Playful

Content, loving , thankful and peaceful

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Hey @pinklollipop15 😃

yellow piece of pie - the emotions chart with the coloured segments look like the trivial pursuit piece you move around the board 😃👍 😂 I'm a goose

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Hi @cloudcore for me its feeling playful, content, joyful, cheeky, valued, and peaceful that most stand out; which can bring an inner feeling of warmth and acceptance

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@LostAngel

Your post really resonated with me.

That positive contagion when people we care about are genuinely feeling good and we are all swept up in the feeling. There is nothing like it, no personal feeling, narrow goal setting or targets reached, quite match it. I guess it is a sign of love and how we are all connected.

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@cloudcore my top 3 are confident, loving and creative.

Like @LostAngel seeing those around me happy makes a huge difference which is why I struggle so much sharing my life with someone who lives with bipolar.

Expressing my creativity makes me happy, but I struggle to be creative when I am unhappy because the sadness (or fear or anger) saps my confidence. Rightly or wrongly, my moods are soley dependent upon his moods. I am not strong enough to remain focussed and confident when he off on one of his tangents.

People assume I am an extrovert because I have good social skills and can strike up a conversation with anyone, anywhere. In my profession I do a lot of public speaking. However, a part of defining introverts and extroverts is determining where they draw their energy.

Several hours socializing, even though I'm good at it, leaves me exhausted. My energy is renewed through solitude - the point being that living with someone who's mood swings dominate and are omnipresent - someone who is needy and smothering yet also demanding of perfection - well most of the time I'm too sodding tired to be happy.

I've been happy for about three weeks now. He has been calm, given me space when I've need it and not woken me up at night. BUT we've now had four days in a row where things have gone a little pear shaped and I'm back on high alert.

The whole time we've been talking about sadness I've been happy.

Not today.

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Hello @cloudcore

and all other participants..

Noticed this thread and forgot about it..

I was drawn to it again on logging in...last question.

.never too late...

hopefully I will be able to find the beginning again and read through it all..Am I correct in thinking that it stays in social spaces of lived forum?

I am going to respond to the question firstly with how my body responded to this question.

I sensed a short interlude where I felt calm..I realise that I was aware of my body in that moment

Words on the wheel I recall feeling when happiness is present..... inquisitive, loving and aroused..

Sophia

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Q1. The feelings I experience most often when happy are content, free and joyful; peaceful, loving and thankful; and optimistic, hopeful and inspired.

@cloudcore

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It can definitley be hard to predict out own emotions when our environment itself is unpredictable @SJT63 It sounds like things are quire tough at home at the moment.

I relate to what you said about being creative making you happy? I wonder if you ever create things about some of the harder times and if that brings some relief? How would you describe the happiness you feel after creating something?

-periwinklepixie

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Hi @cloudcore

When Im feeling happy is when I feel Powerful, Courageous and Creative.

I am a very motivated person but when I am not feeling that well fear and , anger, sadness take over.

These days the mood of happiness is not in existence as I dont feel motivated, powerful and creative. I feel that I am stuck in this moment that has no answers or ability to move on.. Hopefully it will pass and Im back being creative and powerful..

xx

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oh yeah I understand.. cool I love geese 😄

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