Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.

47,612Members
1,358,869Posts
1,400,000Visitors

Events and updates

Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

DaisydreamerSenior Contributor18 Oct 2021, 9:52 am AEDT

Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

Hi Forums Community,

This fortnight we are joined by one of our Peer Ambassador's talking about moving from isolation to connection as a carer.

Isolation as a carer is one of the big challenges we hear about on the Friends, Family and Carers Forum. Often others around carers may not understand what they are going through, which is where finding peers and peer support can be pivotal for so many.

This discussion will talk about the role of peer support in connecting carers and creating supportive relationships. We will also talk about the isolation and challenges experienced by carers in regional, rural and remote areas, and the additional challenges faced during the Covid-19 Pandemic.

Please join us here on Tuesday 26th October 2021 from 7:00pm-8:30pm AEDT to talk about finding connection and peer support as a carer.

Want to receive a reminder on the night? Hit the 'Support' button below.

New to the forums or want to get involved in this discussion? Check out the How To Guide for Topic Tuesdays.

115 replies

51 - 60 of 115

1...5 6 7...12

In response to: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

DaisydreamerSenior Contributor26 Oct 2021, 7:45 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

@SA64 I love that you took the initative to make this peer group! It's not easy to do, and takes a huge amount of courage and strength to say "this is what I need, and there are so many other carers who will benefit"

What are some tips you would give to others who might be trying to start their own groups?

In response to: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

Unknown userMember26 Oct 2021, 7:46 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

@Determined It's so great to hear that you've found a supportive bunch of people here on the forums – that's exactly what this is all about

Having a safe and supportive place to share your story, without fear or justification, can be a powerful tool in the carers toolbox.

In response to: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

DaisydreamerSenior Contributor26 Oct 2021, 7:47 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

Welcome @Determined 🙂 So glad you could be here! From reading through your posts on the forums the peer support you also provide in this space and your courage to share your story is helping others too!

In response to: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

CornySenior Contributor26 Oct 2021, 7:48 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

That's very sad @BPDSurvivor and as you say, it would have had a huge impact on her life. Corny

In response to: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

DeterminedSenior Contributor26 Oct 2021, 7:48 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

@Daisydreamer

When balancing carer / husband role I much prefer saying that I support my wife rather than I am her carer.

(Other than dealing with official stuff like centrelink).

In response to: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

DaisydreamerSenior Contributor26 Oct 2021, 7:48 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

@Corny

So happy to hear you have support- you deserve it

In response to: Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

SA64Contributor26 Oct 2021, 7:48 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

Well, firstly I guess, you need to take a deep breath and ask for what you need if it is not available. I asked the mental health provider to set it up because it was something I needed. They hadn't even thought of it and then talked to other carers who got on board.
I had previously set up a private Facebook page for mothers of children with disability for support as well. BUT with online things, you have to keep them small or they just get out of hand and you stop receiving help and end up moderating all the time.

In response to: Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

BPDSurvivorSenior Contributor26 Oct 2021, 7:48 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

@Determined , I agree with @Former-Member , and also want to add that by you sharing your experiences as you help your darling, you are inevitably also supporting others - whether carers or not. Your insight as a carer brings invaluable insight to the forums. Thank You.

In response to: Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

BPDSurvivorSenior Contributor26 Oct 2021, 7:50 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

True @SA64 . You don't want to end up moderating all the time. It's so great you could use social media platforms to support others in like circumstances.

In response to: Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

CornySenior Contributor26 Oct 2021, 7:50 pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // "You don't have to be isolated as a carer" // Tues 26th October, 7pm-8:30pm AEDT

@SA64 @Daisydreamer @BPDSurvivor @Determined @Former-Member

https://www.linkstowellbeing.org.au/service-listing/lived-experience-telephone-support-service

51 - 60 of 115

1...5 6 7...12

SANE Forums is published by SANE with funding from the Australian Government Department of Health.

SANE Forums does not provide crisis support.
If you need immediate assistance, please see available crisis services.

Learn more about SANE and SANE services at sane.org

Aboriginal flag

Torres Strait Islander flag

Transgender flag

SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.

SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.

Aboriginal flag

Torres Strait Islander flag

Transgender flag

SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.

SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.