FormerColleagueCasual Contributor
Resources to help in applying for DSP or similar?
A former colleague of mine has been in a dark place for quite some time.
We haven't worked together in quite some time, but somehow have maintained an email connection over the years, with a few visits in between. The colleague has been in a dark place for quite some time (to the point where once I considered trying to call CAT team).
They have significant anxiety, sensitivity to particular settings, sounds, sights, phrases, an aversion to cooking with a very restrictive diet and a degree of body dysmorphia, and have told me one person diagnosed them with dependent, schizophrenic and obsessive tendencies (I apologise if I have the terminology wrong - I have no access to their medical history, just what they tell me).
Their experiences have taken them to a place that can be hard to listen to sometimes - reminisicing about the times past (alongside a fear of societal change) with a decidedly gender and race centric view that has sexist and racist overtones (without implying deliberate malintent, I fear it sounds a little "incel" at times), which is why I tend to limit our engagement to email so I pace our interaction to ensure I remain fit to provide support. It also means that even the most well intentioned person of a given gender or race might not get through to him.
Up until about, maybe, three-four years ago, they were employed, but had to take a lot of time off work as their condition worsened. Eventually it got to the point where they needed to fall back on their super provided income insurance, and now it's coming to the point where that's running out.
They've started the process a couple of times of trying to apply for DSP or similar, but every time they try, they find the process very brutal and dehumanising. My fear is their revulsion and anxiety towards and around the process, and their difficulty engaging with society, will mean they come to the end of income support with no means of maintaining even the basics. Their family does not have the means to support them, with all other family members having their own issues.
They said a psych had started to help them with the process, but when the psych started to speak of points and "depression not being enough", they gave up.
I understand as an untrained lay person, I can't do much. So I listen, and try to acknowledge their pain as best I can, trying not to "fix" things - I just worry they'll end up homeless if they don't get their paperwork sorted. What resources are available for people needing to try and navigate the social security system in this case?