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Lost everything

karina11New Contributor15 Aug 2021, 4:00 pm AEST

Lost everything

Hi eveyone.

i dont even know where to begin.

all i know is that i have lost everything.

with all the pain i have been through in my life and then to loose my kids on top of that.

i have been through so much.... when i was younger and the fleeing DV 2 yrs ago after a 13 yr marrage and then then my ex taking my kids away from me because i have no where to live.

it has just broken my heart.

he hasnt let me see them for 2 months now. im trying to go mediation but that takes so long. i just want to see my baby. ( well they not babies anymore) but still their still my babies.

I suffer with bad mental heath issues and a lot off people have use it agaisnt me. i just dont know if i can do this anymore. i just want my kids back!

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In response to: Lost everything

SnowieSenior Contributor15 Aug 2021, 4:05 pm AEST

Re: Lost everything

Hi @karina11

Welcome to the SANE forums.

I am sorry to hear you are going through so much at the moment. It sounds like not seeing your children has a huge impact on you and no doubt that it does. I hope you are able to see them again soon for both your sake and your childrens.

PLease fell free to keep talking on here. You will find lots of support.

Take care of you 💜

In response to: Lost everything

AussieRechargerSenior Contributor15 Aug 2021, 5:06 pm AEST

Re: Lost everything

Hi @karina11

I am so sorry to hear about your situation and i am more than aware that my sorry does not help you in any way. Can you tell us about your current plan and time frames for the mediation? Do you have anyone who can advocate on your behalf such as your therapist as to how this is affecting you in a negative way?

In response to: Lost everything

Unknown userMember15 Aug 2021, 5:35 pm AEST

Re: Lost everything

Hi @karina11,

Welcome to the SANE forums. I'm one of the moderators. I'm sorry to see you're away from your babies. It sounds heartbreaking. You're at a tough place in your journey right now. It's brave of you to reach out and I hope you know you're not alone.

If you would like to speak to a counsellor, I encourage you to contact our Help Centre on 1800 18 7263 (Mon-Fri, 10am-10pm).

If you need crisis support or are feeling unsafe at any time please contact the following-

Suicide Call Back Service: 1300 659 467

Lifeline: 13 11 14

I hope to see you around,

Sphinxly

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