@Renstar I am so glad that you clarified that point about publicly declaring job positions.
At the beginning of my work life most of my jobs were sourced through friends .So I guess I networked before I heard that word.
Then in public service I heard about the gazette. I was so glad that many things in the public service were specified and clear .. even down to "hot to do" job applications. I was the right type and did get many promotions.
So I have experience of open & hidden job markets. Also with running own part-time studio for 25 years and helping husband run our company ... that he really never would have had the gumption to follow through on without me.
Yes there are opportunities in the hidden job market. We can create some of our own work too.
With all due respect, there is a little about the tone of your posts that I felt a little demeaning: eg., it presumed we were all on facebook, did not go for walks and just needed to try harder. Now I have been on the forum for a while, I know that many members do try to do the right things.
I come from a family background where we had a strong work ethic ... one of the last memories of my grandfather is when he retiled the bathroom .. which really did need retiling after 30 years.. in a house that he physically built himself with his sons. It was a couple of years before he died and he looked like he had just come out of Aushwitz .. he had in reality only been in a WWII labour camp but had life long injuries from that including 1/2 stomach.
My problem was I too had a strong work ethic ...... then I got hit with ... "tryhard" ... "being a martyr" ... "what are you trying to prove" remarks ... etc from those in cushier positions or in the workplace. Which I tried not to get to me .. but they did erode away my confidence ... and probably are triggers to why I did SH.
So the CRUNCHER for me ... was that I finally went to the disability networks .. relatively recently ..about 8 years ago .. I wearily did all that was required .. ticked all their boxes ... was reduced to 8-15 hour work expectation ... which was reasonable ... politely ..I did not roll my eyes when the worker showed me "how to do" a covering letter ... but just inside I was exhausted ...
I blurted that I was struggling with suicidal thoughts for me .. not just dealing with my siblings ... she actually said to me one of the BEST things anybody ever said to me in my whole life. She said it within a reasonable timeframe ... she got that .. I was for real ... and said I did not have to deal with those thoughts and should speak about them. I said I had struggled with them for about 25 years ... and she got that it had taken THAT long for me to get it out .. my husband and children knew ... but all my therapists over time ... somehow ... put blocks up against me ever uttering the words ... they were probably afraid of it ... but it their fear did not really help me .. and my application for disability went through ... then in the officeblock where Centrelink interviewed me ... it came out .. including that I had worked previously for the same dept in the same physical space .. though in an older and demolished tower.
So I have a good thing to say about the Disability Network and the worker I was assigned to ... I felt normal and I could relate to her as a worker to worker ... not all the patronising of the "helping profession".
I knew and she knew that I HAD been capable of doing her job ... but in the broader scheme of things .. I was better of just teaching a few kids and looking after my son.
If my son gets settled ... which may happen soon .. I would be very happy to go back to someone like her ... and get help to get a part-time job in a school .. but if that puts other teachers out of a job ... where is the right balance ...
I feel like I definitely earned my pension ... and that I am somewhat disabled ... but still have strengths ... which I use ... often without payment ...