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How do you feel about this?
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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
So are you @Bunniekins and your boy. I have faith things will fall into place for you with his respite. Please keep me in the loop sweetheart. Love you Pea 💕
I'm going to attempt a bit more sleep now.
@Former-Member will visit later and hopefully piccy has opened 🤞
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Anastasiasleep well hunnyxxx
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@rockypug Hi rockypug 🙂
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We're having some technical difficuties!
I tried using a URL rather than a straight up photo, and that should work. If not, it's a quote.
When you love somoene more than they deserve, they will hurt you more than you deserve.
@Bunniekins
@Anastasia
Thank you.
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Former-Member My ex left me after 23 years of marriage when I was in the midst of a full blown psychosis. I have forgiven him but he has not forgiven himself.
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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
Hi @Former-Member
Love definitely allows us to be vulnerable and in turn be hurt.
I don't know about loving someone more than they deserve...
Do you mean if they are intentionally hurting you, then they don't deserve your love?
If so yes I agree.
Sorry @Bunniekins hubby left you 💔
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OaktreeSenior Contributor
So sorry to hear that you have to go back into hospital for another admission @Bunniekins. I know that you were super missed around the forums last time. I will keep you in my thoughts and hope for the best for you. See you soon. Take care.
Meggle
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
@Oaktree Thanks sweety. Thoughts much appreciated. Love peaxxxx
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SwansongSenior Contributor
Wellyou asked how do I feel? I don't care about being hurt... It will happen to a degree in all relationships... It can't all be roses all the time. That is unrealistic... Humans are flawed and we need to learn and grow. Love will continue loving regardless... But if you are in danger or being hurt too much you need to love yourself enough to remove yourself from the situation. A toxic relationship which causes distress most of the time is not worth it... Not only are you letting the other person hurt you... You are hurting yourself by staying. I am old enough to know romantic love is an illusion... Real love is gentler and no so dramatic.
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