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Notes To Self

LostAngelSenior Contributor28 June 2021, 10:16 pm AEST

Notes To Self

Notes to Self ,you are good enough,you are worth it,you deserve to be happy,you shouldnt feel bad for being happy,live your life your way you are an adult and you are allowed to feel like an adult,you are valued,you are important,do not focus on self doubt do not focus on negative things people have said about you and especially dont listen to the negative voice of your mother in your head cause even she shouldnt hold you back from living your life,and for goodness sake dont have performance anxiety as you are allowed to have a love life there is no need to feel guilty about what makes you happy,dont doubt your ability to please someone who always reaffirms your worthiness and what you mean to them,so smile laugh and let yourself be happy cause its your life and its no one elses buisness anyway,its ok to be happy its ok to be happy in an unconventional way

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OaktreeSenior Contributor29 June 2021, 2:57 pm AEST

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@LostAngel

More power to you! Glad to see you being so positive!

Meggle

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DaisydreamerSenior Contributor29 June 2021, 3:23 pm AEST

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Such a beautiful post @LostAngel

"you are good enough, you are worth it, you deserve to be happy"

Could not agree more! I hope that writing these letters to you are really affirming experiences

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LostAngelSenior Contributor29 June 2021, 5:40 pm AEST

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Thank you @Oaktree and @Daisydreamer trying to improove how I feel about myself as an individual person,still very much on a self growth Journey,emorionally,mentally and physically Ill get there got some good supports in my corner now,two aunts who are there,and a doctor,soon a phychiatrist to help manage the mental health side of things,currently in a romantic relationship,wether that is for the best or not well see,Im 27 years old and still working on self best I can at the moment doing things to help myself even though I dont want to cause I know I need to help myself though,who knows maybe one day Ill talk to a paster aswell one day although my behaviours I do feel would be judged in regards to my relationship style of choice but it is my life to live and I know full well mistakes are part of that as long as I keep a s carefull as I can whilst taking adult risks and learning about myself along the way,if the relationship turns bad I will have to seek support again but for now it may be my mental issues that are the main cause of my behaviours and lets hope its not a result of the relationship I choose to have with someone anyway I am trying to move forward emotionally and mentally and as much as I dont like to admit I will most likely need meds but I do very much like positive affirmations

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