BowSenior Contributor
Share a cuppa?
I've just made myself a cuppa and would love a friend if anyone is around?
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BowSenior Contributor
I've just made myself a cuppa and would love a friend if anyone is around?
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tymeModerator
I agree about not cooking for one. @Captain24 . I'm not keen on eating the same food all week lol. If I cook, and use one potato, one carrot, one tomato etc, it still makes enough for 3-4 meals...
It's so odd shopping for one. I buy one banana, one mandarin, 2 apples, 2 pears....and that's what it's like. There's no point buying bulk because it ends up going to waste.
Do you go to your folks every week for dinner? What's your work schedule like this week?
tyme
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AbnerSenior Contributor
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AdgeSenior Contributor
Hi @Shaz51
A shared Cuppa is always nice.
I had Divorce Papers Served on me on Saturday morning (2 days ago).
Someone (a 3rd Party he called himself), turned up at my front door.
I had no idea, was not expecting that.
I tried to tackle the Divorce issue years ago - Yet did not get past First Base.
The Divorce Hearing (on Form) is set for 29th August - In about 6 weeks time.
I'm still struggling with surviving work each day (beyond my Physical limits), which is why you only ever hear from me Via the Support Button.
Best Wishes,
Adge
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hanamiSenior Contributor
Hi @Adge
It sounds like you got a real shock when you received those papers without warning.
How are you feeling about it today? It must be a really stressful time for you. Do you have someone close you can talk to about the situation?
Sending hugs
Hanami
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FloatingFeatherSenior Contributor
Hi @Adge,
My name is FloatingFeather and I am one of the peer support workers at SANE.
I sorry to read about being served divorce papers unexpectedly - that must of been such a shock and what a cold way to have received them. I would also imagine that having a third party turn up on a Saturday with them would have really rattled you.
I do wish you all the best with it and please don't feel like you are alone. If need to talk and/or unload we are always here for you.
Best wishes,
FloatingFeather
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BowSenior Contributor
Hey @Adge sorry this is the path your walking at the moment. Were you expecting it? I was the one that served my now ex husband and it wasn’t an easy thing to do even though I hated him. The process of a divorce is so emotionally and mentally draining, and it was such a relief once it was all finalised.
wishing you well
🎀
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I can imagine divorce is difficult @Bow Even though it’s not a good marriage. ☕️
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BowSenior Contributor
Cuppa sounds nice @Former-Member
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