BowSenior Contributor
Share a cuppa?
I've just made myself a cuppa and would love a friend if anyone is around?
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BowSenior Contributor
I've just made myself a cuppa and would love a friend if anyone is around?
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tonysSenior Contributor
@NatureLover thanks for doing all that .. and hope you are feeling better now. yes i dumped that theory saturday because it took me over an hour to send one to sophee and another hour to send one to maddison. so it didnt time out that night. most posts take me a long time because i have huge fruit pickers hands and they ache at night, couple that with a slow mind, and im constanly rereading the letter i recieved, and rethinking my response. you get the picture.... so i sent a big letter to maddison on sunday , at 12 midnight, got the invalid message again. i tried to send it anyway, and madisson tells me she got nothing today.?.. worst of all though, some one i sent a letter to, only got half of it !, for me thats not a safe way to communicate.. now to be clear, not blaming any one , i got no answer from sane and its coming from there site so i guess they simply dont know. plenty goes wrong on my farm that i cant explain, thats life .... but it must be said that im just chasing cars here and to continue runs the risk of making me a serial complainer. im happy and want to stay that way. i have enjoyed making a few people laugh and am grateful for all ive learnt. i have my u tube music going every chance i get so thanks again... one member that responded did tell me they had the same problems i had, so i know theres an intermittent ghost in the system ... next trip i take to the big smoke, i will chat with a computor guy i know there. if you ever get a chance try your test again. try around midnight and run it for a bit over an hour... could be the system reboots at midnight... forget i said that.... take care and bless you all.. tonys at moon base one
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AbnerSenior Contributor
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tonysSenior Contributor
@NatureLover was in a big hurry with last post, so i had a better read of your post to me .. i should have said , i hope you are 'coping' better,, i forget how many genuine problems people have out there... worlds a train wreck and ..... well just thanks for going above and beyond the call of duty to do all that for me .. make sure you you look after you too.. tonys'
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tonysSenior Contributor
@maddison hi maddison ... well you are such a trooper that i usually try to put extra effort into my letters to you.. last nights i thought was my best work and im so sorry it didnt go. i was reading it with a warm feeling, fixing all my spelling mistakes and then... arrrrrrrr, ..... that invalid thing in bold orrange on my screen again ,, waited about 5 minutes in the hope it would go away.... no joy ... so i had to hit post and i guess all my ice castles, fluffy fantasies and coloured bubbles disappeared..... sent a post to nature lover which sums up the terrain i currently find myself deployed in.. im going to go to the big city and talk to the man.. hes the guy you get to hack the Chinese, the computor nerd supreme,.. didnt get a response from sane forums, but thats good... i did say i didnt want a response unless they had a solid solution, i guess they just dont know. thats cool . in my next life ill have all the answers too. and i do get how busy they are, i need to stop chasing cars like my silly pooch till i get it sorted so ill pop in for a read now and and save my poems for my donkey, hes got the softest winter coat now, and if i got apples he still loves me... you take good care of your self maddison.... your a kind and wise soul... bunch of sun flowers from moon base one.
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tonysSenior Contributor
@maddison wow , i just sent a post to you but it nearly didnt go. to describe my dog i used the word ( now i will have to spell it backwords or this one wont send) "tum" so i went with pooch. apparently " tum" puts you on the f.b.i, most wanted list, so then i went with pooch, Swamp thing , my dog, will definatley take offence, he thinks poodles are marshmallows.. that transgression fixed, i hit the post button again, and ahh yes. . ... my old friend, mr invalid in his garish orrange jacket. . . . i would have almost been disappointed if he wasnt there to taunt me ... fat finger trembling over the post button, tremors, cold sweet dripping of my face... 3...2....1.... post .. it went ... it went .. i hope you are laughing .. i am.. its all you can do. if learnt something about my self i must be into pain because here i am tempting this remorseless beast with another post..... if its not a night mare it will do till the real one gets here.. tomorrow its off to helgas house of pain for some light relief. all jokes aside, have a top day tomorrow. tonys m b 1
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Hi @tonys , 2 letters from you, that's a treat! Thank you for your kind care regarding my not coping.
I'm sorry you are still having tech problems, I really wish they would go away for you! 😞
Sorry your hands ache...that would be hard.
Your letter made it sounds like you were about to leave the forums...I really hope not, you are a bright light on the forums here - it's always a pleasure to read your posts.
@tonys wrote:if you ever get a chance try your test again. try around midnight and run it for a bit over an hour... could be the system reboots at midnight... forget i said that....
Can't do that sorry...I can't function after 9pm! Start getting asthma attacks and throwing up if I stay up any longer than 9. But on the flip side, I function best first thing in the morning, that's why I come on the forums early in the morning.
Thanks again for your kind wishes to take care of myself. I feel much better this week.
I hope you are also doing OK.
@tonys wrote:im happy and want to stay that way.
I agree, it's important to stay happy if possible...If you need to leave you need to leave...but I hope it won't come to that.
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maddisonSenior Contributor
Hi @Steven78
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AbnerSenior Contributor
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tonysSenior Contributor
@Abner very well said, and hope you are very well... just a quick thought.... autism , brain injury,,, ive spent every day of my life driving down the wrong side of the road, accidents, wreckage, its and inevitable part of our crawl to the finish line. at the site of each head on smash , we rely on the understanding of others, which understandably is in short supply . i wouldnt worry what people think about your words abner. people are inherently selfish. if finding fault in one little slip or misuse words lets them ride a bigger horse, one day they will fall a bit further than you.. tollerance.. we dont all have the same education I.Q. , brady bunch familly back round . most of my teen years were on the streets selling pieces of my soul one shard at a time.. pardon me if i dont have silver ware communication skills 24/7... i practice social masking every day... and still find social isolation far safer for me and those around me. but give n take , humour , and the odd scrap of kindness from a stranger.... onward .... march... take care mate. gone for a few weeks ... yours with the best intentions mate tonys moon base one
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tonysSenior Contributor
@NatureLover hi mate, no just backing off till i learn to ride ride this beast.. i have come to realize this thing can be a bit addictive so bit of discipline is required, i just sent 2 big posts, well big for me, . and they went, had to swap( cazorp ) thats spelt backwords so it makes it through the gauntlet of monacaled scrutineers, but they went, wrote them on some paper first. makes me wonder how many of my letters made it through because of my bad spelling. you must wake up before my rooster. asthma .... throwing up ... that cant be good. no didnt expect you to do that. hope you come good in the summer. any way ill just ween my self of for a bit so i dont get to obsessed, thankyou for the generosity, of your time and kind words, if your smiling , im smiling ... tonys .. moon base one
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