Hi @Former-Member
I wonder if there is a way you can perhaps shift your perceptions of how you personally feel about the mask wearing? I know when we are told we have to do something, it almost automatically means we just don't wanna do it.
I wondered would hearing a somewhat different idea from someone who experiences both major depression and severe anxiety offer a different perspective. It's hard to know when there's no response or recognition of whether what one has suggested is of worth or not to those who ask.
The mask thing for me means many different things, none of them negative.
To me, the mask is a safety shield, giving an extra layer of protection, both for me, and for others coming into contact with me, in a time of trouble. (I've researched ad infinitum, the efficacy of protection for the mask wearer and it's a useful protection for them too - I will not debate this issue - I state it only for those who may wonder what qualitative support I have for my choice.)
The only negative about them that affects me is when others do not wear their own masks when near others, whether mandated to or otherwise.
No one is allowed into my home without a mask, I do not know where they have been, and they do not know where those they have come into contact with, have been. (I'll add that the number of people who come into my home is miniscule, and they have no issue with it.)
In fact, due to my own health issues, I've been wearing a mask when in public for a number of years before this thing hit.
It keeps out odours, like perfumes that cause migraines, reduces the effects of smoke from wood fires etc, and has protected me from the air borne germs of those who cough and sneeze uncovered in the doctors' waiting rooms.
Since I've been able to, I've been doing telehealth appointments, so that is a blessing; when I had to go for an in person face to face, for a new doctor, I wore the mask the whole time. I'd have felt a whole lot safer if the doc had been wearing a mask too!!! but he didn't back then.
Okay, that's some background info.
I'd respectfully suggest it might help if you were to compare the visit wearing a mask to the interaction one has in other situations. When talking/ typing online with a therapist, the chat function has no faces to see, telephone interactions are without faces to see.
Meeting someone new doesn't necessarily mean one has to be able to visually see them, those who are vision impaired do not see faces, let alone bodies, yet they still meet new people. Perhaps recognising this aspect might allow you to stretch your current perceptions a little to search for stepping stones to making the mask wearing not such an issue in the way it currently seems to for you.
Has anyone noticed the positives around wearing a mask as a retail worker?
No need to wear so much make up.
No need to keep that smile pasted on when you really don't feel like it - you can still have facial movement, like smiling, and that is reflected in the voice.
Not so many coughs and colds.
My own quality of life has improved significantly since I began using masks in public a couple of years ago, so I have no problem with current mandates re masks.
It's just a couple of thoughts I've had ...
