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Help. Please.

Help. Please.

Anyone else cracking open a bottle at 3 in the afternoon? Feeling shitty. I don't even know why really, just been feeling shitty alot lately. I shouldn't have started drinking, just one I tell myself, just one because I have to function tonight when my boy comes over... i just want to go to drink and pass out. Anyone around?

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Thank you @saltandpepper !!!

I know hugs aren't your thing but your words of support make me just want to hug you right now. Can we high five instead, would that be ok?

I do feel pretty chuffed. Kicked some goals finally!

Stood up for myself at work too this week...first time EVER.

My boy was my inspiration having sat with him during his meeting at the hospital after being bullied.

Is your boy with you tonight? He sounds like a cutie 🙂

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Virtual hugs are welcome @Anastasia and thanks for even thinking of that, every time someone on here recognises that boundary for me it gives me the warm fuzzies. It's nice to have that respected after being in a relationship where this was obviously not an acceptable way to be 🙃

Aw dang @Anastasia look at you go! Damn it's not easy standing up for ourselves when it comes to work hey? I was absolutely terrible at that back where I used to work. Give yourself a pat on the back, well done 👏

And you know what's really amazing there, kind of sounds like you're giving your boy strength, and he is giving strength to you. What a team you guys are. And incredibly brave of him to get through the meeting. You guys are both incredibly strong.

Yep, little fella is here til Friday. He's a cheeky bugger of a kid, a lot of fun and he's always so incredibly happy all the time. Just the best kid in the world. I'm very lucky.

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@saltandpepper Oh thank goodness, I was worried I'd crossed the line. Well I'm sending lots of virtual hugs then cause you deserve them for all of the support you spread so readily around. I really am grateful to have found you 🙏 I've screen shot two of your messages to refer to, my favourite was the response to Dr. I did sit in the sun today, it was only for a few minutes and it was spectacular. You've helped me alot, thank you.

Yeah I guess we do bounce off each other, we are very close. He's such a kind, gentle soul, and definitely brave. 🙏

Oh your son just sounds like a happy little man. I googled Octonauts, haha cute. How lovely he's there with you. Enjoy 🙏 God they grow up quick.

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@Anastasia I am thankfully not the angry person I used to be, so it takes a lot to cross a line with me these days haha Can't imagine you'd ever do that with anyone though. And no, I do like a virtual hug--no physical contact required.

Back at ya @Anastasia and I'm glad I've been able to lend you a bit of support during this shitty time. Glad you found some time for yourself, and a good start with just a few minutes. Bump it up to 5 minutes for me tomorrow?

If your son could see the way you write about him here.. It melts my heart.. Can only imagine how it'd make him feel. I'm so glad for the both of you that you have such a close bond. I hope to have that with my son.

Octonauts is actually one of two kids shows I'll happily watch. It's quite interesting learning about all these sea creatures. For example: The Immortal Jellyfish. That episode blew my mind. And Bluey is a good kids show too, funny. Yep, so come to me if you need a good kids show recommendation. Know my stuff.

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Morning @Anastasia hope everything goes well today with your son returning home

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You're an Angel, thank you @saltandpepper 🙏

Virtual hugs for you to have the best day with your special little man 🤗

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Hi @Anastasia @saltandpepper

My granddaughter watches Octonauts she loves the show.
I'm having her tomorrow after kinda for the night.
I'm sick of lockdown - another week. And I'm sure all the holiday makers are down at their holiday homes while lockdown. It's ridiculous.
@Anastasia you are an amazing mum. Such a strong person. I'm glad you're son is happy to come home. Snd you too must be happy. What a sh...t doctor!!!

@saltandpepper your little boy sounds so cute. My granddaughter is like that too always happy. I love when I see her and I now miss her terribly.

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@BlueBay thank you

off to get him shortly

@saltandpepper

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Hope you guys are off to a good start today @Anastasia

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Hey you @saltandpepper

Kicked goals out of the park today. Should have seen my boy... so proud!!!!!

In bed, one eye closed. Pooped.

I believe changes is coming ✔️👏👍🤜🤛🙏💕

Hope you're good too. Chat tomorrow my friend 🤗 <--- that's virtual btw 😃

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