Hi Having troubles with 18 yo BPD. Any time a task is requested - it triggers a crisis! This is a particularly lazy teenager - so what to do? we’ve tried all the usual tricks
Friends, families and carersCreated 4 years ago
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Hi Having troubles with 18 yo BPD. Any time a task is requested - it triggers a crisis! This is a particularly lazy teenager - so what to do? we’ve tried all the usual tricks
Friends, families and carersCreated 4 years ago
Hi team, I'd like to get your input, views and advise on this situation I'm facing as a long-distance carer. My mom's still experiencing confusion from schizophrenia. She seems to be doing most of her daily tasks, but the one pattern still ongoi
Friends, families and carersCreated 4 years ago
My children don't talk to me,I find it difficult coping with it on my own so I would like to talk to other parents that are in the same situation. When my children were young I made a decision that I regret . But in saying that I though it was the right t
Friends, families and carersCreated 4 years ago
I’m having a night. Tears, frustration, worry, fear. i care for my mum and brother. Brother has severe, chronic alcoholism and mum has undiagnosed mental health issues and lives in severe hoarding and squalor. I’ve been a big support carer for them f
Friends, families and carersCreated 4 years ago
Hey guys, For those of you who haven’t read my other posts I’ll do a short recap. My Dad was diagnosed with terminal cancer 5 weeks ago, and cirrhosis of the liver a week or two before that. Unfortunately it was too much for his body to handle, and
Friends, families and carersCreated 4 years ago
Hi Everyone After 11 years of doing it alone its comforting to know that I’m not alone in caring for someone with BPD. Recently my wife sought out psychological help for herself. It was a proud moment as the 6 she’d been to before had never really h
Friends, families and carersCreated 7 years ago
After 2 1/2 years of waiting for my girl to reconnect with my husband and myself, the message finally came last week that she would like us to visit. My forum family know the heartache I have been experiencing all this time waiting and hoping for this day
Friends, families and carersCreated 4 years ago
Firstly! I’m sorry I’m a forum hog atm! I’ve really needed this space for months and only just discovered last night. I’m learning so much and have a lot going on and hence lots of questions! I think this is my last for a hot minute though and then I’ll t
Friends, families and carersCreated 4 years ago
I took my 22 year old daughter to a mental health place 2 weeks ago, because if she didnt get help im scared shed end up dead. she has depression and was told a few years ago she most likely has PTSD, but she wouldnt go to see anyone for help. Her life is
Friends, families and carersCreated 4 years ago
Hi all,Background: Supporting my alcoholic brother and MI mum. Brother on very low income & mum has few financial resources. Mum is in the wait for ACAT assessment and is engaged with older persons mental health service (yay!). Brother in and out of p
Friends, families and carersCreated 4 years ago
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