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Content/trigger warning (Highlight to read)Hi all, sorry I know I am asking a lot... we have a psychiatry appt in May but really need one sooner for diagnosis and discussion surrounding options. Apart from presenting to an ED what avenues, if any, are the
I am so confused. My partner of 10 years moved out to get help so as to not hurt me anymore as she acknowldeges she needs help, yet has not accessed help yet, but has appointments scheduled. Over the 3 months of her leaving she has slowly distanced hersel
My partner has upset me again, I cried and cried, she told me it's her not me (possible BPD), she said she knows she hurts me, doesn't know why. She messaged to say 'be careful' after I left in tears and said 'think smart' I replied 'whatever', her 'sorry
My husband has been in mental decline for most of this year and it has increased this past couple of weeks. At the mere mention of a GP he becomes erratic and is paranoid so believes I am, in his words, dangerous. I asked him to leave home but then realis
Hi my husband was diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia 15 years ago and had been on meds since then. The first time he left me was a few years after starting meds he starting tapering off them and ended up being hospitalized for suicidal and homicidal th
So Im on the phone to SANE, we ended up talking about my sisters medication stashes and that I was going to ask for them today (She had agreed to hand them over twice yesterday in meetings but was hospitalised before coming home). My Mum had called while
hi. im wondering if anybody can shed some light on this for me please. my bf/partner was diagnosed with bipolar 2 in his 20s. he is now 44. he is unmedicated and is not interested in seeking medical help or monitoring or managing any of his symptoms, trig
Hi All I have been dating a single Mum of a 4 yr old for 5 months. I told her last night that I could see a future with her and I could be a supportive partner...she has been dealing with custody issues with her ex. Anyway, she's unsure bec
My husband started behaviours with little regard for consequence a couple of years ago, I had no idea what BPD was but since things have spiralled this has been mentioned by GPs as well as adhd known depression and anxiety. In my naivety I nagged and crie
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