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Hi very new to this whole online help thing.I have a 22 years old son with Aspeegers and severe OCD.He sees health professional e.g. OT and psychologist who he is happy with but he never does what they suggest to help.His GP has suggested medication
Hello, i am caring for my partner who has cancer, I do pretty much everything and I am feeling very resentful. I live in an isolated area, and I am drinking more and more as I am becoming more frustrated. I am not sure if anyone can really help.
Severely unable to cope. Partner of a BDP/ all new to us but I have been experiencing it for 7 years, I cannot make sense of anything. I feel like a crazy women.
Hey everyone, I just wanted to know if any of you know if you can have a type of borderline personality disorder without the self harming?
This is a different feeling from depression. I don't feel with depression. I function somehow throughout the day. With depression I can't function. My mind is exhausted. I was given a strict and urgent project deadline today. Before the deadline wa
Hi, i've never spoken on a forum so apologise if I do this all wrong. My 6 year old Son has OCD which I can deal with but heres the catch, he had no such symptoms until after he was sexually abused by a very close female family member roughly 6 or so mont
I have been trying to find out if there is any possible way to get access to my mother's mental health records when she was admitted to a psych ward by my brother and I? This happened when I was in my teens. I have asked my father if he had any pap
Afternoon All. long post but hang in there I’m the mother of 3 wonderful children. The youngest being 17 (yep almost an empty nester). Over the last 18 months our youngest has had a lot to deal with The suicide of a
Hello everyone. New to this forum. Just so happy to find this group. I'm endeavouring to gain knowledge so I know how to support a family member who has recently been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder.
Hi all, Newbie here. I am looking for help to cope with my mother who has - according to my own previous psych - undiagnosed BPD. I am in my early 30s, and currently pregnant - this is making it harder to maintain boundaries and manage having her i
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
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