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Feeling deceived

SuuCasual Contributor

Feeling deceived

Just found out my husband has been paying his X money to pay his grown up kids bills or her bills. This has been going on for a few years. I had no idea. It makes me feel so depressed...that he didn't tell me.

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In response to: Feeling deceived

The-SailorCasual Contributor

Re: Feeling deceived

Hi @Suu I am really sorry to hear your husband kept that hidden from you. I would feel deceived, too. Hopefully you can have an honest discussion with your husband and he recognises how his behaviour has made you feel.

If you ever want to vent or share the burden of depression, I'm here.

In response to: Feeling deceived

MaggieSenior Contributor

Re: Feeling deceived

@Suu Sorry your husband can’t be honest with you.

Is there any way you can talk it through ?

Listening if it helpful.

@The-Sailor 👋🏻👋🏻

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