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Hi MrRightEnough. Can I ask if you have any sort of help with the boys? Having the problems they have would make for limited social gatherings. If there is any sort of club where you could take them with other people having similar problems, it would take a bit of the strain from you. I take it there is no mother figure there. You need 'time out' as much as they need interaction with other people with mental health issues. Sometimes family, even though they have the best of intentions, because they're family, they don't always 'see' what the problems are. If you could interact with others in similar circumstances, it would be a great benefit to you and them.

Hi Pip, we do get 'help' however the quality of it is very poor.

School is my only real relief...Corey has been banned from outings with local disability providers..

We have no extended family and yes.. The mother lives itinerantly 1000 kilometres away and has very little (no) contact...

Hi @MrRightEnough

I'm really glad you reached out here. It sounds like social isolation is a big one for you. Are you geographically isolated too (ie: in a small town?)

Nik

Dear MrRightEnough. Have you been in contact with family services for some help. Having two handicapped sons must entitle you to some extra help. With the 19 year old, perhaps respite might offer some suggestions. I know respite offers help two or three days a week. The 13 year old, as I suggested ask family services if they can offer some assistance. It sounds as though their mother would be of little help.