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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
How do I tell someone in not ok.
I tell lifeline and the cops were here at 3am. I tell crisis team when they start shift they say what do you expect and there's nothing we can do. I'm too scared to tell my friends because they get scared I'll do x again.
So I'm saying it here. I'm not ok. I'm really not ok. I'm far from ok and I don't know what to do about it.
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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frogSenior Contributor
Hello @The-red-centaur just wanted to say I read your post and I'm sorry it's so hard. I am glad that you are here on the forum.
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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Hi @The-red-centaur
I have just been reading your post and it sounds like you are really doing it hard this evening. Good on you for reaching out on the forum. Please hang in there and I hope that you can get some relief from the pain soon. And please consider getting some nutrition.
Look after yourself,
Whitehawk
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LemonjuiceSenior Contributor
@The-red-centaur I saw my mother go through a lot of pain with her feet. She had neuropathy because of her diabetes. If you are going through anything like my mum went through, you are incredibly brave and powerful. What's happened to your feet? Only if you want to say.
As for your bulimia/eating issues, I can't begin to imagine how difficult that is. I can't stop eating. I suppose that's an eating issue but of a different kind. Sorry, can't help you with this, only to say that I am thinking of you and I will check in with you again.
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