family law with mental health

hello and hugs @Mon0497

@Bunniekins, @Appleblossom , @Former-Member

@Mon0497 @Shaz51 Hi Mon0497 and Shaz51. Mon0497 welcome to the forum 😄 unfortunately I am of little help (I have given you post some reflection throughout the day). I just wanted to let you know that we are a caring bunch of formites here and will help when we can. Take care pea.x

Hello @Mon0497

I am glad your daughter and grandchild are thriving in your home. Early mothering is the most demanding time.

Unfortunately, I have had lots of experiences 1) in my generation of being a child and being seriously neglected and made a ward of the State at 6

2) being asked to care for child by father and Protective Services, which also involved Supreme Court 3) now being denied access to my grandchild, by controlling and over protective other side.

In some ways the Family Court is better than when we had to deal with higher court. It is not as expensive and the whole system is better geared and family sensitive .... though I am sure its not perfect and there are a lot of unhappy litigants...

My Best advice is to be fair, and accept that it is in child's interests to know both parents. His mental health may be just as much an issue as your daughter. A lot depends on the individual. Stigma with mental health is real and complex. I grew up knowing both my parents had mental health problems. No easy way around it. I am sure you are doing your best. Continue to Take Care.

Hello @Mon0497

It is an emotive time for you and I am sure your solicitor will advise you accordingly.

From what I understand is that the aim is to work out a parenting plan and if this is not able to be done so amicably the courts will make a parenting order and in doing so they will take into account the way in which each parent has complied with their parental obligations.

Sadly, in a known percentage, mental health issues do have the potential to become child protection issues, particularly in the case of untreated illness. Irrespective it may be wise to include contingency plans in the parenting plan as to the care of the child should relapse occur or should your daughter need hospitalisation.

You might find this interesting reading:

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.health.qld.gov.au/__data/assets/pdf_file/0025/365515/qh-gdl-310.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwjDy6fTif3mAhXhjeYKHdqaALE4ChAWMAN6BAgJEAE&usg=AOvVaw0BfNwSnIxQ1ZquB3xKvWYY

I am finding it interesting. Thank you @Former-Member

"Parental mental illness does not imply an automatic inability to meet a child's needs, however the impact on the whole family when a parent is living with a mental illness should be recognised."

from page 6 of previous document.