Borderline personality disorder

@outlander thanks for your reply.

We don't really have any support in place. It is sort of available but is costly. Just seems ridiculous to now allow magistrate to do her bit.

Yesterday the barrister and pyschiatrist report was over 5,000 dollars, we planned on my daughter to seek the guidance of her to pyschiatrist to attend a BPD specialist (psychologist) at my expense.

It now feels like they will just chuck her in rehab and that will be all

I feel for you. After years of up/down episodes with our daughter we were told she has Borderline personality disorder . at the same time we were told that her chronic suicidality is personality and not mental illness.. and no, we couldn't see her (17.5yrs). she was sent to a refuge and hasn't spoken to us since early June. My partner has since been in and out of MHW with suicidal episodes. his diagnosis varies - schitzoaffective displorder, bp2 and ocd. My mum had strokes in March and is far less independent- partner asked me to put my degree aside while I care for him. I'm a terrible carer - falling apart at this stage. ferl like I'm wading through treacle and crying often. I tried to involve aftercare (we have 3 kids at home wearing all this stress in various ways & despite my poor best efforts) but partner hit the roof at me needing support - accusing me of making it about me: I'm sinking failing being a positive support to my kids, failing my degree, failing to take ion the responsibility of sufficiently caring for my mothrr and noe failing as a partner and carer.

I'm 100% empathetic to your pain at being pushed out of our precious child's life. I don't have answers, just understanding.