difficult mother

The mother who is not very nice to my daughter & i -& her daughter is not nice to my daughter-

has been at it again- every time I give her the benefit of the doubt & hope things will get better & improve- another thing just keeps happening to cause upset for my daughter & I.

-we had an ongoing play date arrangement for our girls which was every Tuesday they play together-

this mum picked the day!!-- now for the last two weeks she has had another girl on Teus & I have a feeling it is now an ongoing thing that she will have this girl teus now-

last week she said she had another girl- we could still join them which I agreed to & then cancelled because I knew my child would be upset if another girl was there on her special day- especially since they are not at same school now so hardly see each other-

i asked to catch up this teus & she said she "had plans"- her daughter later informed me it was with the same girl- so it appears my child's special play date day has been replaced with another girl, which is so upsetting for my daughter & I-

We had an ongoing arrangement & now another child has taken my child's place- she could have choosen any other day of the week- my child has just been cast aside & replaced- it just goes to show how much value my child is to her.

Yesterday she asked my child to play with her child while she spent the entire day at the community garden- so they were effectively not being supervised-AT ALL- I felt so uncomfortable about leaving my child there- I kept saying I can take them somewhere & watch them- nope they wanted to stay-

she sent me a message about going to the tip- I sent her a message saying "please keep an eye on my daughter as she is unpredictable "--- I get no reply in return- this woman keeps proving to me time& time again that I am of no value to her & my child is of no value to her-tips are dangerous & if a parent sends a txt saying that- you reassure them that your child will be well looked after- but no I get nothing-& this is a regular occurrence- not replying to my txts - not a one off- just like me buying food for her kid & her not buying food for my kid , not giving money for her kid, or thanking me when I buy food for her kid-it is a regular occurrence- not a one of- it's the norm

- oh & the gran was really rude to my daughter- the two girls were spinning round on their stomachs on play equipment at park & accidentally kicking up wood chips next to a small girl that was standing close to the equipment I told both the girls to be careful- but they were having fun & not paying attention & kept the wood chips flying- well I said "Cody be careful!"-& the gran immediately said- very loud & angrily "SHE DID THAT ON PURPOSE!!!"- meaning MY daughter!!--when the two girls completely ignored me & keep running round in circles & the wood ups kept flying- I DID NOT appreciate that!!- there is no way my child did that on purpose- in fact I believe they both did not even realise it was happening as they were laying on there tummies & not looking behind them- so they were not even aware wood chips were flying or a small girl was standing close by-( her mother was with her & was unbothered by it all)-

but how rude to say my child did that on purpose- but her grandchild didn't do it on purpose- that has REALLY shown me exactly how she feels about my child-& it's just completely absurd because as I said neither girl was aware of what they were doing-they could not see & were not listening because they were having to much fun!!

i didn't respond because I was in shock & hate confrontation- but that is so rude- think I am done with this rude & uncaring family for good!