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RLMNew Contributor
On the outside I have the perfect life so why do I find life so hard? A wife , 2 great kids, good suburb and working. Yet I hate my job, I visit brothels and my Christian faith is more a burden rather than a joy. I feel dirty, unfaithful , a bad husband and failing father. I am condemned and the only way to stop my mind being impure may be a final release to find peace.
i am scared and really don't know what to do.
In response to: Not sure what to do
LouLouMagooSenior Contributor
Hey RLM,
I can hear you are having a really tough night and there is a lot on your mind. I'm going to send you an email to check in to see if you're ok
LouLouMagoo 🙂
In response to: Re: Not sure what to do
QueenieSenior Contributor
Hey @RLM, how are things after your check in with the mods? Hoping you're okay...
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