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for all the people who have given up smoking..... how did you do it

Bubbles3Senior Contributor13 Dec 2017, 12:52 pm AEDT

for all the people who have given up smoking..... how did you do it

hi everyone

i want to give up smoking at some stage (not just yet) but at some stage. i have lung disease (RB-ILD) and emphysema and i really do need to stop smoking. i do enjoy smoking and i smoke alot and when i say alot , i mean alot, . 1 big packet of 55gm of tabacco will last me 2 day the most if im lucky.

i was wondering for the people how has given up smoking.......

how did they do it

how hard was it

what made you want to quite ( becuase beig told i have lungs like a 60 year ols still hasnt made me give up) and im only 32

"What made you want to start smoking?"
"What things make you crave a cigarette?"
"What made you decide to quit smoking?"
"What things have been stressing you out lately?"
"What could I do to help make quitting easier for you?
Chew gum or slowly eat hard candy.
Put a straw or toothpick in your mouth.
Switch tasks for a change of scenery.
Play with a rubber band.
Munch on some carrot sticks, nuts, or celery.
Squeeze a stress ball.
Take deep breaths and try to relax.
Drink lots of water.

what are some of these things you did to help you give up

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor13 Dec 2017, 1:33 pm AEDT

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@Bubbles3 Hi Bubbles3 I used to smoke alot and gave up cold turkey in my early twenties ... the reason was I woke up one night with massive pains in my chest ... like bricks. I thought I was having a heart attack ... it was enough for me at long last to stop and because I made that decision freely I didn't need to worry about cravings like I had suffered in the past.

You'll get there ... something will make you give them up when the time is right you will want to and you will.

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Bubbles3Senior Contributor13 Dec 2017, 1:38 pm AEDT

Re: for all the people who have given up smoking..... how did you do it

@Bunniekins
even when i have pneumonia and im in hospital with oxygen on, i still want to go outside for a smoke, the docs hate but they cant stop me. i dont know what wrong with me. ill guess ill learn the hard way.

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor13 Dec 2017, 1:40 pm AEDT

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OwlunarSenior Contributor13 Dec 2017, 2:14 pm AEDT

Re: for all the people who have given up smoking..... how did you do it

Aw @Bubbles3

That can be really hard

The first thing is to work out why you are smoking - ah yes - I was getting pretty agro with a guy I was friends with but went on smoking after we went our seperate ways - so guess what - I liked it

But concern for my health won in time and I worked out that having a mobile phone was a better way of spending my limited income - and then I could play the games in the phone to keep my hands busy

One thing surprised me was the URGE - I still get that - what? - 15 years later - there are times when I could reach over and grab a cigarette out of someone else's hand - as the years have gone on this has become less but it can happen - the urge I mean - not grabbing one out of someone else's hand

I never really had cravings - so I guess I wasn't addicted - the hard part was stopping something I enjoyed I guess

And drinking water and chewing sugar free gum helped - as well as keeping my hards busy - getting onto the internet probably helped with that too

All the best @Bubbles3 - and think about it for a while but be committed - and during that time try and put off each smoke to smoke less

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Bubbles3Senior Contributor13 Dec 2017, 2:26 pm AEDT

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thanks for your info @Owlunar

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Unknown userMember13 Dec 2017, 9:56 pm AEDT

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Hi @Bubbles3 ...been a long time since I had a smoke. I peaked at 40 a day in my late twenties - I'm 50 now. I think I smoke so much I actually got sick of it. With me quitting was more of a choice to change other aspects of my life including illegal substances so I guess I would call it a multi-faceted approach to clean myself up. With the cigarettes I didn't quit cold-turkey.... I slowly reduced the number I had each day over about six months until I was down to one a day after dinner and eventually it just wasn't pleasant any more so that was the end - no more smokes. I haven't had one in years but I find the smell still vaguely pleasant... i don't think you ever get completely over it but I'm sure if I had one now it would taste disgusting. In times of really bad stress I still think "man, I really need a smoke" but I know how expensive they are now and I'm tight with money so I don't give in to temptation. Good luck - you can do it.

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tamaCasual Contributor03 Jan 2018, 9:20 pm AEDT

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Hey @Bubbles3,

I dont know if you have heard of the book...

Its called The Easyway to Quit Smoking by Allen Carr.

It encourages you to smoke while reading the book and by the end of the book... you will not be a smoker. sounds to good to be true right? it isnt. i quit using this book.My mum quit, my brother and his best friend, i also know a few other people who quit from it too.

It has been 8 months and i havent had a ciggie and it was the easiest thing in the world. -even ahnging around my partner who still smokes is not an issue. I went away too and didnt need a smoke even in Vegas, where you can literally smoke indoors.

I had been smoking from the age of 13 to 26 and had never quit in the whole time. i didnt think it was possible... i was desperate and this book was a godsend. I think you should give it a read. im pretty sure you can find the pdf of it online. thats how iread it on my phone.

Good luck,

Tama

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Shaz51Senior Contributor08 Sept 2018, 12:55 pm AEST

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@eudemonism, @Sophia1

this is another thread

@tama, @Bubbles3, @Former-Member, @Owlunar, @Bunniekins

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eudemonismSenior Contributor08 Sept 2018, 7:55 pm AEST

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Hi @Bubbles3@tama@Former-Member @Owlunar @greenpea I'm in the early stages of stopping smoking.

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OwlunarSenior Contributor08 Sept 2018, 11:21 pm AEST

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Goodonyer @eudemonism

Sometimes the scary part is making the decision - and you've done that

You have probably read the whole thread and the ideas listed - I can repeat what worked for me and give you support

Wow - another person has decided to quit - I can tell you that I feel a lot better since I quit and it's a long time ago now

All the best

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