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Today was a bit tough

Today was a bit tough

The day was fine but I challenged myself to open up about a few things that I really need help with including my anger that builds up so quick and becomes so hard to control

 

I got there and talked about it not just briefly and just skimming over I wrote some things down and some words to describe how it really feels and I told them 

I felt vulnerable and ashamed 

 

 

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Re: Today was a bit tough

Thank you for sharing this with us @ArraDreaming.

Honestly, you should be so proud of yourself for opening up and exploring what is beneath some of these bigger reactions - your anger doesn't come from nowehere. It may take some time, patience, and compassion to work through, but it's absolutely possible.

I can imagine it would have taken a lot of bravery to open up about your feelings in this way. How do you feel now? And how did they respond to your sharing?

PS: I feel vulnerability and shame quite often too. 💛

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Re: Today was a bit tough

I don’t think I can go back there @AuntGlow I just wanted to run away as soon as I started sharing
I just wanted to disappear and hide

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Re: Today was a bit tough

I think this is a very common reaction to being vulnerable @ArraDreaming. It can feel really exposing, can't it? (Even if it does help)

What do you think would happen if you went back? 

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I will but I know in thsy moment I just wanted to run away @rav3n
it didn’t feel like the relief I thought it would in the moment
after a bit more

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Re: Today was a bit tough

Totally @ArraDreaming!

I think this is where we have to bring in a little kindness for ourselves, because sharing these things is hard and takes a lot out of us.

Are you saying it feels a bit better now some time has passed? ☺️