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Sunday night

john74Senior Contributor

Sunday night

Hi ll am feeling totally overwhelmed atm

I share a house with a young couple whom argue regularly and are rude and don't speak to me. I have been through a dv marriage which ended 2 years ago l was abused etc for years by my ex wife.Then l got a tirade off the male house mate yesterday. It just bought back all of the bad stuff from the past.plus now l have financial stress until l find another tennant which too months last time. Still having trouble finding work and stress about upcoming surgery.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

Re: Sunday night

Sorry @john74

Sitting with you my friend

@Jynx , @AuntGlow

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

Re: Sunday night

Not a good atmosphere for your home. Keep advertising and hopefully you’ll get a better fit. I am not overly impressed with some people’s comfort in arguing publicly. If it is in front of you, it is public. Ask them to leave when you can line someone up. With all the housing issues, it shouldn’t take too long.

@john74 @Shaz51

what is your surgery?

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Bossj01New Contributor

Re: Sunday night

Sorry to hear mate. Call open arms if need and hopefully you are getting veteran and ip payments

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john74Senior Contributor

Re: Sunday night

@Shaz51 Thanks l am also concerned the neighbours will complain my agent as the yelling etc can be heard outside.

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john74Senior Contributor

Re: Sunday night

@Appleblossom I am.advertising on flatmates etc . I can even hear it when l am in bed they argue in their bedroom then get up and start slamming doors etc sometimes at 2 am. Because of what l am going through l need to be in a calm, relaxed atmosphere not a war zone

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

Re: Sunday night

@john74hearing you.

sending images for calm

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john74Senior Contributor

Re: Sunday night

@Appleblosom Thanks they were at it again last night

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

Re: Sunday night

@john74

Not sure what to suggest. Whether it’s better to get up and posture, and suggest they go outside and keep the noise pollution down. I get that you don’t want them to turn on you, in the heat of the moment.

I have generally put up with stuff, but I don’t know if it’s always the right thing. Sorry, not much help.

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