benji2705Contributor
Ive cracked tonight and booked a hotel!
I feel terrible for doing this, but I need a break.
Has anybody else experienced this scenario?
Am i doing the wrong thing?
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benji2705Contributor
I feel terrible for doing this, but I need a break.
Has anybody else experienced this scenario?
Am i doing the wrong thing?
In response to: Ive cracked tonight and booked a hotel!
JoeTheLionSenior Contributor
Hi @benji2705
Welcome to the forum
Thank you for sharing. We look forward to hearing the Community’s insights and hope you feel supported.
All the best
In response to: Ive cracked tonight and booked a hotel!
LattepoweredSenior Contributor
Hi @benji2705 i don't know much about your situation or what you are struggling with, but please know that you have absolutely done the right thing booking a hotel, if you need a breather from what feels too intense. You are simply fortifying yourself so that you can continue, and that is a very responsible thing to do. You are likely also setting a boundary for how you want to be treated, and that is perfectly OK.
I am basically a carer for a loved one with paranoid delusions and trust me, I think about running off to a hotel all the time! Can't really though as we have little kids.
Hope things improve for you
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